Getting worried about (and frustrated with) DH's refusal to take care of his health

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is everyone’s husband.
And for what it’s worth I’m deathly afraid of jinxing myself by focusing on my own DH’s health when I could be the one with an illness pop up. Saw this with my aunt who smokes a pack a day. Her husband always on her to cut out the cancer sticks. Guess who’s in better health in their 60’s?
Say your blessings daily about your own health and focus on your husband’s good qualities.

Sad that this has become the accepted norm for American men. Then they wonder why their wives lose interest in sex. No woman wants to have sex with a guy who has bouncier boobs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is everyone’s husband.
And for what it’s worth I’m deathly afraid of jinxing myself by focusing on my own DH’s health when I could be the one with an illness pop up. Saw this with my aunt who smokes a pack a day. Her husband always on her to cut out the cancer sticks. Guess who’s in better health in their 60’s?
Say your blessings daily about your own health and focus on your husband’s good qualities.

Sad that this has become the accepted norm for American men. Then they wonder why their wives lose interest in sex. No woman wants to have sex with a guy who has bouncier boobs.

It's hardly just "American men."