I was an unhooked student at one of these schools and ended up in the middle of my class. Maybe high-middle of the class. Not brilliant, but I turned in everything on time, did all the homework, studied hard for finals when it mattered. My sibling, on the other hand, was a prodigy. Not just top 15 percent at H like the PP but probably top few students at H. Probably the top student in a very competitive major. Ended up at the best grad program in that field for a PhD. Could eventually (realistically) win a Nobel. We went to a public school (and not one that's recognizable at all) outside of a major city. While my application was more solid all around, my sibling's showed a huge amount of initiative in a specific academic area in trying to get beyond what our school offered--applying to special summer camps that offered scholarships, taking classes at a nearby college (even though it wasn't a major university), entering competitions/internships that were free despite not having high-profile sponsors and beating out kids who did. |
Eh can you really say that Duke and NU are not comparable to Brown or Cornell or even Dartmouth? |
I think Yale is the most egregious of the HYPS schools in that respect. Harvard is a bit better, and Princeton and Stanford are quite better. The ivies you wanna avoid are Yale, Brown and Columbia. The rest of the ivies and elites, while also predominantly liberal, are not as militant. |
| I have a feeling that Yale, Brown and Columbia avoided you. |
This actually does not speak well for the University that it fails to challenge their most brilliant. |
Dear Parent, We regret losing the opportunity to add your child to the ranks of the 37,000 applicants we rejected this year and will attempt to solider on somehow, though our institution's future viability has been thrown into serious doubt by your disagreement with our practices. Sincerely, Harvard's egregious administration P.S. I have pretty much eliminated supermodels from the mix of women I will date. |
I'm the one with the prodigy sibling (legit prodigy). My sibling was in the top of class but definitely was challenged at Harvard because of the research opportunities under the best professors and getting pushed by extremely brilliant professors on the thesis, summer research work, and small courses. My sibling's thesis adviser had standards on the thesis that were probably higher than standards for dissertations at most universities. I know people say otherwise, but my sibling had a lot of one-on-one opportunities with top professors at Harvard. Almost all the instruction was from those professors, not TAs or grad students, like some would have you believe. I have no idea if that's unique to the top students at H, or everyone though (I did not go there. I went to another HYPS). |
Of course they are. Sillies. |
| Sounds like two different experiences by the posters. On another note, IMO contests like the Olympiads don't necessarily id the prodigies. No question that one has to train hard for them but kids with a deep interest in a subject sometimes dimly view contests. They're really more about learning a lot of shortcuts and tricks. Unfortunately those kids probably have a harder time proving their talent in the admissions game. |
That PP doesn’t know WTF s/he is talking about. Sky’s the limit at Harvard, if you have the ability and the drive. Not saying that’s unique to Harvard, but, seriously, if you aren’t challenged there (and challenge is what you’re looking for), you’re doing it wrong. |
DH and I both had similar experiences to your sib’s as Harvard undergrads (in non-STEM fields). |
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I've been a Harvard interviewer for 20 years. Prodigiousness is important, but motivated self starter is more important.
Also, a few non academic things will keep you out: PITA parents, arrogance, and an inability to get along with people. |
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I went to a HYPS. I was an unhooked white female from NYC. 2400 SATs and in the top 1/3rd of my class (but not higher) at a public magnet. Did not try hard at all and constantly got marked down for late/I don’t homework. Two extracurriculars with national recognition, but not like in a prodigy sort of way. Intended to major in math and philosophy, which probably helped; but ended up as an EP&E major.
Actually found my school very easy; much easier than HS since I could avoid hard subjects that I wasn’t interested in and there was no busy work. Summa without much effort and gone most weekends for an EC. I got a lot out of the school, but didn’t find the academics particularly challenging. |
How do you find out whether parents are PITA? (short of showing up to the interview with their kid) |
EP&E? Did you go to Stuyvesant or Hunter? |