Dating Profile...Question for Women!

[Anonymous]

Are you taller than me
Do you date women with children
What your photos say ( i hate the bathroom selfies; the pics with other women; the pics of your foreign travel and your professional mug shot)

[Anonymous]

Mention if you have kids and say how many, and maybe provide a loose age range. That helps weed out a lot of guys. Mention if you smoke weed or do drugs. That also weeds out a lot of men. Mention what you are looking for, ie hookup, or something more substantial. Mention what city you live in, as some profiles state a completely different location than where the guy lives now, ie the guy moved and didn't update the profile.

I agree that travel pics are so lame. Mentioning your passport and that you like to travel is also very lame. Everyone has a passport and travels, it's like saying you wear shirts everyday.

[Anonymous]

Also, I like to see lots so smiling pics. If every pic looks exactly the same, and if none of the pics include a big bright smile, I pass on the profile. Next!

[Anonymous]

Smile = This guy is a lot of fun to be around

[Anonymous]

Make certain the photos are reasonably current. Like within 3-5 years. Make certain your face is clearing visible. Skip the. photos of you with other people.

Do not take the picture of you with your car as chances are I am not into dating your car.

If you have strong preferences re politics or religion, state that upfront. What are the top four things you do every week; are any of those things we can do together, preferably outside as many of us spend every week day indoors.

[Anonymous]

No pics with cats. So many men have pics with multiple cats. No one wants to date a creepy cat man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When I was online dating (met my husband online) I had a few do’s and don’ts

Do say what you do for a living. No need to say how much you make but if I am going to be honest, I am not dating a pop eyes deep fryer.

Do say what you do for fun. Great way to connect with the person if you share common interest.

Do state what you seek. Just a good time? Something serious?

Do not post pictures of your children or friends. They did not ask to be on an online dating profile.

Do not state that you aren’t interested in women of color or bbw, even if it is true. Just skip their message.

You mean Popeye's?

Actually I prefer me state piggish preferences, helps me avoid them!

[Anonymous]

1) Be honest - don't lie about your age, marital status, height, whatever.

2) Give me something to message you about. "I once lived in Peru - ask me my favorite (but crazy) food dish from there." Or "Ask me about what happened when I ran into John Wayne in Nashville"

3) No pictures of exs or random hot girls, makes me wonder if you are a player.

4) Boil down what and who you are looking for minus cliches like down to earth.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Mention if you have kids and say how many, and maybe provide a loose age range. That helps weed out a lot of guys. Mention if you smoke weed or do drugs. That also weeds out a lot of men. Mention what you are looking for, ie hookup, or something more substantial. Mention what city you live in, as some profiles state a completely different location than where the guy lives now, ie the guy moved and didn't update the profile.

I agree that travel pics are so lame. Mentioning your passport and that you like to travel is also very lame. Everyone has a passport and travels, it's like saying you wear shirts everyday.

Guys saying they have kids is fine, but its a safety risk for women. I'd rather not be searchable by that criteria.

As far as travel, I disagree. However, if you "go on vacation" occasionally that's not really a love of travel. If you've loved abroad and travel extensively and that's one of your sole pursuits, then do mention it! It's a lifestyle choice.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No pics with cats. So many men have pics with multiple cats. No one wants to date a creepy cat man.

I’m into cat men! Love seeing photos with the pets included as only as it’s nlt obsessive

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Mention if you have kids and say how many, and maybe provide a loose age range. That helps weed out a lot of guys. Mention if you smoke weed or do drugs. That also weeds out a lot of men. Mention what you are looking for, ie hookup, or something more substantial. Mention what city you live in, as some profiles state a completely different location than where the guy lives now, ie the guy moved and didn't update the profile.

I agree that travel pics are so lame. Mentioning your passport and that you like to travel is also very lame. Everyone has a passport and travels, it's like saying you wear shirts everyday.

That would be nice but the purpose of a profile is to attract women not weed yourself out. They arent writing profiles for you, its to serve their needs not yours.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Smile = This guy is a lot of fun to be around

Ironically the largest study done on human sexual behavior found the number one thing men like in women is smiling, in for women smiling came in dead last. Meaning it was the least attractive and sexually appealing trait a man displays. Women also rated faithfulness as unattractive.

Women by survey and brain scans responded better and were more attracted to aggression, confrontational, arrogant and power or perceived as highly regarded. Hard to put that in a profile but smiling happy go lucky = low response.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No pics with cats. So many men have pics with multiple cats. No one wants to date a creepy cat man.

Those are the boring guys that think reminding a woman of her grandmother is attractive.

[Anonymous]

Men pose with cats? I would do it if I was posing in my volcanic lair and mentioned my salary to the cat: "That's a tidy sum, Mr. Biggesworth." But I think you need a bald head and a funky 60s outfit.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are you taller than me
Do you date women with children
What your photos say ( i hate the bathroom selfies; the pics with other women; the pics of your foreign travel and your professional mug shot)

Uh, what do you have against foreign travel?