Anyone else spending NYE without their SO?

[Anonymous]

I am spending NYE without my SO because I don't have one. But back when I did have one we always were together on NYE.

As an alone person tonight, I am really looking forward to not having to watch Kathy Griffin make a complete humiliated ass out of Anderson Cooper. Maybe this year he will retain a shred of dignity? I am told that Andy Cohen is a much better comedic partner for AC, thus AC squared.

[Anonymous]

Can’t you go hang out with him and his friends? So strange that you wouldn’t be welxome

[Anonymous]

Huge red flag re: the state of your marriage if your husband actually intentionally leaves you out of NYE plans.

I wonder who he will be locking lips with when the ball drops.

Your New Years Resolution:
Figure out your marriage.
If your husband is entirely in or not.

Because you deserve all from him.
Full commitment + devotion.

If you cannot have that, then you will not settle on nothing at all.

You deserve much better in your life.
Make this New Year about loving & respecting YOU.
And if your hubby cannot, then let him be free.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Huge red flag re: the state of your marriage if your husband actually intentionally leaves you out of NYE plans.

I wonder who he will be locking lips with when the ball drops.

Your New Years Resolution:
Figure out your marriage.
If your husband is entirely in or not.

Because you deserve all from him.
Full commitment + devotion.

If you cannot have that, then you will not settle on nothing at all.

You deserve much better in your life.
Make this New Year about loving & respecting YOU.
And if your hubby cannot, then let him be free.

Did you consider showing up just before midnight?

[Anonymous]

Alas, spending it with my husband instead of my SO. Maybe next year will be better.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Huge red flag re: the state of your marriage if your husband actually intentionally leaves you out of NYE plans.

I wonder who he will be locking lips with when the ball drops.

Your New Years Resolution:
Figure out your marriage.
If your husband is entirely in or not.

Because you deserve all from him.
Full commitment + devotion.

If you cannot have that, then you will not settle on nothing at all.

You deserve much better in your life.
Make this New Year about loving & respecting YOU.
And if your hubby cannot, then let him be free.

Did you consider showing up just before midnight?

No, 2 hours drive away.

And yes, I need to get my self-respect and self-confidence back. I've let him chip away at it for so long that this kind of shit seems normal. Just needed a reality check.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He decided he wanted to spend it with his friends (and their significant others), but I wasn't invited. Most of my friends are out of town, so hanging solo. Anyone else?

Get a lawyer ASAP. Speaking from experience.

[Anonymous]

not normal. I'm guessing his friends did invite, but he didn't want you to come along. 7 years is a long time to wait.