Anyone else spending NYE without their SO?
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Anonymous
| We spent it apart last year and maybe this year. I wanted to go out and he wanted to stay in. I went with our friends but both of us were invited! |
Anonymous
| Yes. The kids want to go to an event and we don't want to pay for another adult ticket, so I am just taking them. DH and I will go out for a nice dinner next weekend instead, when my mom is available to babysit. |
Anonymous
| Yes. DH is a first responder and is on duty today. |
Anonymous
What event is that? Need to do something with DD. |
Anonymous
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I am, but all signs point to divorce soon.
I’ve already popped some champagne, picked up food for tonight, plan to get a workout in around 5, then rent something on Amazon and watch it in my bathtub. |
Anonymous
Very sexy! |
Anonymous
| I read that NYE is the biggest night for cheating. People with choppy marriages will tend to hang on through the holidays. Then NYE is a time for change, involves a lot of alcohol, etc. |
Anonymous
| My husband is taking the kids skiing. Hanging with toddler who has cold. I'm not upset about it at all though. We are having girl time, doing nails, and eating treats ? |
Anonymous
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Yes. Dh wanted to spend it with his family so we drove to my inlaws. We don't have a babysitter here so dh is going to a party with my inlaws while I babysit the baby and toddler. I'm pretty pissed because I always saw nye as a couples holiday not a family holiday.
His reasoning is that we saw my parents for Christmas so his family should get this holiday and we'll exchange Christmas presents tomorrow. |
Anonymous
| Yep. But we are living apart (temporarily) and he flew back home to another continent yesterday. Same as last year. Hopefully by next mew years he'll be here permanently... |
Anonymous
| Celebrating apart by choice or need is fine - but when he is out with friends - and they have their SOs along and YOU WANT TO GO....no, no, no. |
Anonymous
This. This is the red flag. Don't have kids with him. |
Anonymous
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Get out now OP
We are spending it together but we pretty much hate each other. We have four kids. |
Anonymous
OP here. We have 2 kids. The youngest will be out of the house in 7 years, trying to keep it together until then. |
Anonymous
So you're an established family with kids, but you "weren't invited" out with him on NYE? What the heck? Now it makes even less sense. |