no system in any society or country will fix that lack of parenting. this has been proven over and over again. maybe a kibbutz but that has everyone parenting. Right now there are too many clusters of new society doing no parenting ever. |
"People should raise their children according to my beliefs and principles" is not a policy solution. |
+1 I notice in my kids' K and early elementary classes that some kids come in to school behind, but by and large the K curriculum is easy and they catch up. The fact that they then fall further and further behind is bad parenting, not bad teachers or bad curriculum. Our school does a lot for children in need, and I'm glad to see them get winter coats, Christmas presents, backpack food for weekends, and free meals during the school day, etc., etc. because it isn't their fault. But in the end, schools aren't parents and the majority of these kids will not reach their potential as a kid whose parent is attentive -- free pre-K or not. |
I think free after school homework center on the Elementary level would help more than pre-school. |
Hahahha. The problem is the people having sex, popping out babies who have NO beliefs and principles on anything. And if they do, their actions speak quite differently than their lip service. Then people like you think you can raise and develop someone else's welfare babies with your beliefs and principles, and yet that is never effective. Maybe progressive, liberal MoCo could just adopt them at age 1 month yet still send all the aid to the baby mommy. |
PP, I hope that you get a chance to spend some enjoyable time with your children over winter break. And if you celebrate Christmas, please remember the part about good will toward men (people). |
Our nanny just quit, single, pregnant, third kid. 34 yo, first kid is teenager, second is elementary school and now this. Luckily she lives with her parents, who cook her meals, and raise her first two kids.
Hopefully her kids graduate high school, maybe do college, and definitely get married before having children. Maybe pre-k will help instill that? |
MCPS data. Don't you trust it? |
Link, please? |
1. I live in northern moco and I don't know one family that did not send their kids to quality pre-k. Even low income children get free pre-k.
2. Northern moco does not have problems attracting young families. 3. My observation is that kids can't afford afternoon activities, tutoring or test prep. Hispanic and black families are very involved parents. I find that kids in our neighborhood start to show a huge different in college readiness and planning starting in about 7th grade when the material is too confusing for parental involvement. I also find that people with less money don't get correct LD evaluations, mcps try to let kids slide instead of identifying issues and helping with them because they don't have the money to address the issues. Rich parents pay for private, demand IEPs or get intense expensive tutors. I also tutor kids in Math. |
As a French woman, I don't understand why there isn't one unified federal program for subsidized daycare all over the country. This is the case for many European nations. That way parents can go to work, be productive, and rest easy that daycares have government oversight for safety and education, daycare workers are adequately paid, and they only need to pay a reasonable portion of the costs, depending on their income. |
Full of what? Do you disagree that kids in Head Start don’t often have the same support at home as families who post on DCUM? What exactly did I write that seems so off base? |
I am 22:12 and while I agree with what you said, I just want to make it clear that this was not my response. Another PP thinks there is just one person who thinks that Universal free Pre-K will not solve all the county’s problems. It seems there are actually 3 different posters who are saying basically the same thing. |
I’m this PP. I actually do not teach ESOL, but unfortunately I think Teachers/staff/some Admin all face the same challenges in these lower income schools. And people outside of the school have no idea what Teachers/staff are asked to do and what kind of miracles they expect to occur in schools. No easy answers, but expanding programs within an already dysfunctional system is not the best approach IMO. Hope you have a good break! |
Nobody has said that universal free pre-K will solve all of the county's problems. I doubt anyone thinks it, either. It might, nonetheless, be a good thing. |