Why is my ex who lives in NYC in front of me at my neighborhood coffee shop?

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Anonymous wrote:Are you afraid of him, OP?

Totally surprised. I was literally right behind my ex, caught me so off guard.

Again, are you SURE he wasn't at a Christmas Party last night, uninvited? Where are my peeps?

Maybe. Zero clue what my ex does.

Aww, geez. My peeps will get the "uninvited guest" reference. Where are you all?

I get it, I get it!

I get it, too. Was there ever an update?

We should have taken her seriously - her autographed t-shirt of the Twilight Saga was stolen.

[Anonymous]

I assume you didn’t have children together? How long were you married?

[Anonymous]

I would panic and leave because the thought scares the he'll out of me. He has stalked me before.

I'm not OP though.

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Anonymous wrote:I didn’t stick around to find out! I heard the voice, saw the Burberry scarf with Canada Goose parka, and did an aggressive 180 and zoomed to the door.

Undetected?

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I get the reaction of OP. It's a hit in the gut to see the guy and worse if it's where you previously felt securely away from the reminders of a bad time of life.

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Anonymous wrote:I saw my ex today at our son's gender reveal party. We had a nice conversation. What, exactly, is the problem here?

So you broke up but are still having a kid together? And you want kudos for having a conversation with someone you'll have to coparent with for 18+ years?

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Anonymous wrote:I get the reaction of OP. It's a hit in the gut to see the guy and worse if it's where you previously felt securely away from the reminders of a bad time of life.

Wasn’t a nasty breakup or anything. Just caught me so so so off guard!

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Anonymous wrote:I saw my ex today at our son's gender reveal party. We had a nice conversation. What, exactly, is the problem here?

So you broke up but are still having a kid together? And you want kudos for having a conversation with someone you'll have to coparent with for 18+ years?

The PP saw her ex at their son's gender reveal party. Presumably the son is the father of the baby-to-be making PP a grandparent.

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Anonymous wrote:Are you afraid of him, OP?

Totally surprised. I was literally right behind my ex, caught me so off guard.

Again, are you SURE he wasn't at a Christmas Party last night, uninvited? Where are my peeps?

Maybe. Zero clue what my ex does.

Aww, geez. My peeps will get the "uninvited guest" reference. Where are you all?

I'm here! That guy sure gets around...

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I would find that weird— it would freak me out! What are the chances...? How long ago did you break up?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It's because he/she no longer has to let you know where they are.

An obscure coffee shop by my apartment on a random Saturday afternoon dressed super casual.

Why the need to. Amedeo the brands? So weird?

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Anonymous wrote:I would find that weird— it would freak me out! What are the chances...? How long ago did you break up?

Met in grad school. Broke up a couple years ago. Def not implying ex is stalking me. As you said, what are chances. Funny is all.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I saw my ex today at our son's gender reveal party. We had a nice conversation. What, exactly, is the problem here?

So you broke up but are still having a kid together? And you want kudos for having a conversation with someone you'll have to coparent with for 18+ years?

Want a cookie for being a general A-hole and completely missing the point of the PP’s post? Here, take two. Actually, have the entire box...

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Anonymous wrote:It's because he/she no longer has to let you know where they are.

An obscure coffee shop by my apartment on a random Saturday afternoon dressed super casual.

Why the need to. Amedeo the brands? So weird?

Why do people hit “send” on these posts before making sure their phone hasn’t done some weird autocorrect that makes the post unintelligible? Is there some huge rush to post?

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Anonymous wrote:Despite our best efforts to keep them in their natural habitat, they stray in search of new mates and fresh prey. Just alert the correct authorities to capture him and release him 100 miles away.

He didn't go, uninvited to a Christmas party last night by any chance, did he?

My first thought too!

Our little troll is back.