Study finds more women being forced to marry down

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Study finds more men being forced to marry fat...

Only if you lack options dude! Smart men marry international. However, most American men are fat duds as well. So, like minds attract each other.


FALSE.
Anonymous
Depending on the university, it's 60-70% female. So let's say you're a female university graduate, and want to marry a man who is also a university graduate. That doesn't seem like a big demand, but already at that point, the numbers are stacked against you -- 3 women for every 2 men.

I see a lot of effort to get more women to study STEM fields at university (excellent initiative), but very little to get more men to study in female-dominated fields, or in universities overall.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Well duh; they don't make men like they used to. Nowadays you have to raise a man like he's your child.


Get a god damn job. Men don't exist to be your personal ATMs.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
What's my Ex's excuse? He's 48 and grew up in a 2-parent, UMC home. Had never held a job more than two years in a row and is $10k behind in CS.


YOU picked him. Or did he stick a gun to your head and force you to marry him?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Women are the ones who have changed. The egos of women have gotten bigger and the "mr bigs" in high demand. Many women will not date a man because he did not attend this or tat university and feel any other univeristies are below them. When you look at these women objectively they have accomplished nothing but feel entitled.


Pretty much
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
DP.. I half agree with your post. Women have indeed changed. We have more options. Why is that a bad thing? Would men like it if they had no options?

Women have changed in that they can get an education and have any career they want. They can now be financially independent and don't have to rely on a spouse, especially an abusive one. Yes, this has allowed women to be more picky. Some women are too picky and do feel entitled. Most women I know who make good money (six figures) but didn't attend an elite university don't really care what university a man went to, as long as they have a good job (meaning, they are also financially secure) and they are *adults*, not kids who need to be mothered.

Those two things were my only requirements really, other than the physical traits. My two sisters feel the same way. Unfortunately, one of them ended up marrying a man-boy because he had promised that he would change once they were married. Famous last words.


I will never change and I tell all my girlfriends that up front. I'm going to do whatever I want whenever I want and if you don't like it, there's the door.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
I see a lot of effort to get more women to study STEM fields at university (excellent initiative), but very little to get more men to study in female-dominated fields, or in universities overall.


Thank you, feminism!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Well duh; they don't make men like they used to. Nowadays you have to raise a man like he's your child.


Get a god damn job. Men don't exist to be your personal ATMs.


I have a job, a good one; you need to teach your male friends to go one and not one where they're making 30K a year.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
I have a job, a good one; you need to teach your male friends to go one and not one where they're making 30K a year.


Enjoy spinsterdom and eating cat food in your elderly age.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
I have a job, a good one; you need to teach your male friends to go one and not one where they're making 30K a year.


Enjoy spinsterdom and eating cat food in your elderly age.

DP... you have a lot of hate for women deep down. Why is bad for women to be financially independent and expect her man to be the same in that regard? And sure, it's fine for a man to feel the same, that his GF or DW should be able to be financially independent.

And why would that PP eat cat food in her old age if she's making good money? Chances are she's been investing and socking away for retirement so she doesn't have to eat cat food in her old age. More than likely, anyone who is earning only $30K with no savings of any kind will be the one eating cat food in their old age.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
DP.. I half agree with your post. Women have indeed changed. We have more options. Why is that a bad thing? Would men like it if they had no options?

Women have changed in that they can get an education and have any career they want. They can now be financially independent and don't have to rely on a spouse, especially an abusive one. Yes, this has allowed women to be more picky. Some women are too picky and do feel entitled. Most women I know who make good money (six figures) but didn't attend an elite university don't really care what university a man went to, as long as they have a good job (meaning, they are also financially secure) and they are *adults*, not kids who need to be mothered.

Those two things were my only requirements really, other than the physical traits. My two sisters feel the same way. Unfortunately, one of them ended up marrying a man-boy because he had promised that he would change once they were married. Famous last words.


I will never change and I tell all my girlfriends that up front. I'm going to do whatever I want whenever I want and if you don't like it, there's the door.

PP here.. I hear you. No woman should ever think that a man will change simply because he says so.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
I have a job, a good one; you need to teach your male friends to go one and not one where they're making 30K a year.


Enjoy spinsterdom and eating cat food in your elderly age.

DP... you have a lot of hate for women deep down. Why is bad for women to be financially independent and expect her man to be the same in that regard? And sure, it's fine for a man to feel the same, that his GF or DW should be able to be financially independent.

And why would that PP eat cat food in her old age if she's making good money? Chances are she's been investing and socking away for retirement so she doesn't have to eat cat food in her old age. More than likely, anyone who is earning only $30K with no savings of any kind will be the one eating cat food in their old age.


He sounds like one of these no nothing men we're talking about. Notice he fails to tell us what he does for a living and how much he makes, lol
Anonymous
I'm in my early 40s, and half my female friends from when we were all in our 20s are not married and don't have children. I guess they're still holding out for the perfect man.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
He sounds like one of these no nothing men we're talking about. Notice he fails to tell us what he does for a living and how much he makes, lol


I'll provide this info as soon as you post a full body photo of yourself so we can judge for ourselves if you're full of shit.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
He sounds like one of these no nothing men we're talking about. Notice he fails to tell us what he does for a living and how much he makes, lol


I'll provide this info as soon as you post a full body photo of yourself so we can judge for ourselves if you're full of shit.


Don't think anyone cares about the photo more than you, lol; apparently I hit a nerve today so you need to go release your pent up rage.
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