Yes, Dear, all the bad people in the world attended elite colleges. You win. Now please stop the ridiculous cut and paste. |
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You are asking why people who think Ivy schools are overrated didn't go to any Ivy. Why would I attend a school I think is overrated?
Your logical reasoning skills need improvement. |
Yes, because all the people who think the Ivy schools are overrated were accepted to the Ivy schools and declined attending. Come on... |
Those last two are excellent schools. Probably not "elite" though. Would be thrilled for my kid to go to Vandy in particular. |
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I went to a regular old state school (Michigan). DH went to Harvard grad school. I observed that there are more name brand faculty there, but they are also more into their own projects than into the students. Office hours for the luminaries had to be booked weeks in advance. His advisor wasn't in town during registration and offered no assistance. So I don't know if he got a great education there, but he certainly did get a great network. He also has been considered for more jobs and received more invitations to events and panels because of the so-called H bomb. It opens doors, so he believes it was worth it.
I'm fine too. I feel like I might have to prove myself a bit more to get the door open than he does. But I'm not complaining. I've now got a good rep for what I do, but it was hard earned. |
| It seems the point of the OP was not that going to am elite school is a better path to success. Rather, that those who denigrate elite rarely have gone to one. I agree with the OP. |
Uh, have you ever encountered someone from a state school? Have you ever hired multiple people from varying schools and noticed how the 'elite education' employees can be insufferably full of themselves and not necessarily great employees? |
No. I actually have never noticed that. I have hired Ivy grads and state school grads. All great kids and great employees. |
I worked in TV - comedy mostly - and the funniest guys I ever knew were Harvard grads. Nice, too. |
We have a Cornell grad and a Dartmouth grad - both wonderful and humble people and the opposite of "full of themselves". You sound jealous, PP. |
I agree with OP, too. |
Reminds me of the guys who couldn't get a date to the prom so they said the prom was beyond stupid and only losers went to the prom. |
Why would people apply to a school they think is overrated? People do apply and decide to go to non-Ivy schools. Clearly they didn't think it was worth the cost. |
Prom is pretty stupid. |
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Stanford undergrad + Harvard grad here.
I know one couple (friends of my aunt) who went to Stanford who always go on about what a waste of money Stanford is. They went on and on about they every year at Thanksgiving (which we celebrate with at my aunt's) every single year I was in college. I honestly didn't understand why they were so adamant about spending a substantial portion of the holiday explaining to my parents how they were throwing money away on my education until their kids, who were a couple years younger than me, went to college. Their kids all went to expensive privates that were good schools but somewhat lower ranked than Stanford. Their schools were no cheaper than Stanford. Ultimately, I think their ire was about realizing their kids would never get into their alma mater. All of that being said, though, I think elite schools are both under- and over-rated. Under-rated, because IMHO at least Harvard and Stanford really do provide experiences that are near impossible to get elsewhere. Over-rated, though, to the extent that a HYPS diploma isn't sufficient to tell you a person is smart/will be successful. IME, it mostly tells you there's a greater than average chance that a person will be notably intelligent...and also a greater than average chance that a person will only work well "with" others when they are leading efforts. |