Do you have your spouse's picture in your facebook profile

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No. In fact, I am not even friends with my DH on Facebook - by our choice.

Well, that's just weird.

New poster. Not friends with my husband on Facebook. We are not friends. We were not connected while dating either. He went off Facebook years ago.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why wouldn't a person post a profile photo together with their spouse? I mean, what's the issue?

There is no issue. But OP is probably an OW stalking her AP wife's page and is hoping a lack of the H on her profile means something... but it doesn't.

[Anonymous]

Yes. What's the big deal?

[Anonymous]

No. My profile pic is me. My cover photo is usually something I made: art, food, etc...

My DH and kids are in photos, but not my profile or cover - that's about me!

[Anonymous]

Everyone's overthinking this. When ANYONE is with someone in their profile pic, it's just because the person liked that pic of herself and thought it'd be rude to crop it.

[Anonymous]

Sometimes. My profile pictures are either me alone; me and DS; me and DH; or me, DH, and DS.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Everyone's overthinking this. When ANYONE is with someone in their profile pic, it's just because the person liked that pic of herself and thought it'd be rude to crop it.

Girl I will crop anyone, anytime, even my kids and husband.

[Anonymous]

Facebook's a minefield of bad social etiquette. Some people use it as a soap box to shout their political views every day. It's they the youth moved out of it, and went to other social platforms. The older generations are starting to see this and use it less, move on altogether. If you have shares, sell them.

[Anonymous]

I had to go look. I am typically of he sentiment that it's MY profile, so pics should be of me.

95 profile pics, and most are just me. However:


1 of me & DH at our wedding reception
6 of me & the baby
1 Warhol cat (pink pussy)
1 of me & the dog I used after I put him to sleep
2 drawings of me
1 stack of books
2 of me & ex-DH @ 18 & 22
1 of me and a girlfriend when she was PG
1 of me & my old cat
1 of me & a niece & nephew
2 of one of my cats
1 of me and the dean and my PhD advisor at graduation
1 of a cartoon character
1 of a cookie

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Everyone's overthinking this. When ANYONE is with someone in their profile pic, it's just because the person liked that pic of herself and thought it'd be rude to crop it.

Girl I will crop anyone, anytime, even my kids and husband.

+1

Those thumbnails can get tiny on devices, and the pic is best as a close up of one face. Mine.

[Anonymous]

Most of the good pictures of me and with DH on vacation when I'm not stressed, have a little sun, and am generally happy. The fact that he's there is just the price of doing business to get me to look that way

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I had to go look. I am typically of he sentiment that it's MY profile, so pics should be of me.

95 profile pics, and most are just me. However:


1 of me & DH at our wedding reception
6 of me & the baby
1 Warhol cat (pink pussy)
1 of me & the dog I used after I put him to sleep
2 drawings of me
1 stack of books
2 of me & ex-DH @ 18 & 22
1 of me and a girlfriend when she was PG
1 of me & my old cat
1 of me & a niece & nephew
2 of one of my cats
1 of me and the dean and my PhD advisor at graduation
1 of a cartoon character
1 of a cookie

Thats only 22

[Anonymous]

I don't. My DH isn't on Facebook. I also don't have my kids on the profile pic.

[Anonymous]

Currently yes, because it's a picture I love from a recent wedding.

But I change it a few times a year depending on what pictures are taken. Usually if it's a picture I really love or a picture I look good in (and I'm far too lazy to bother with cropping and editing) I'll throw it up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, he's in a few from the pre-kid days. Usually we were taking a couple picture when we were dressed nicely so that's what made the profile picture. I have some alone too. Now it's normally me with one/both of my kids.

My only nit is people who put ONLY their kids or ONLY their spouse in the picture. The profile pic is supposed to be yours, so if you aren't in it, what's the point? But I also don't spend too much time analyzing it.

Clearly, lol.