Speaking of weddings, is it normal for a couple to not have had sex on their wedding night?

[Anonymous]

We started to have sex, both were virgins, when my hymen broke it was too painful so DH stopped. I was quite naive and was convinced that I had no hymen because I was very active in sports. Besides all the romance novels I had read made it seem that the hymen was deep inside me and this felt like something that was very much on the surface. We had a fabulous honeymoon though.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I hope my cousin did it with his wife on their wedding night because it was the last time she was thin. A few months later she started to gain lots and lots of weight.

You're such a lovely person.

That's a serious problem.

His cousin didn't choose to marry a fat woman. He married a thin one. This bait and switch.

Why are YOU so concerned about this? What if there is a medical problem for the sudden weight gain? Just mind your own business and go eat a cookie or something, your diet is making you really mean.

[Anonymous]

I know of a couple who had sex on the night their divorce was finalized.

Strange.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I hope my cousin did it with his wife on their wedding night because it was the last time she was thin. A few months later she started to gain lots and lots of weight.

You're such a lovely person.

That's a serious problem.

His cousin didn't choose to marry a fat woman. He married a thin one. This bait and switch.

He chose to marry HER.

[Anonymous]

My grandmother got her period and supposedly my grandparents spent their honeymoon playing two-handed bridge and entering Charleston contests. They won. Still have the trophy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My grandmother got her period and supposedly my grandparents spent their honeymoon playing two-handed bridge and entering Charleston contests. They won. Still have the trophy.

That's an adorable story! Simpler times.

[Anonymous]

We did, but it was lame, super tired sex that I felt obligated to have.

[Anonymous]

We were on hour 20 when we got back to our room, but had enough time for sex before we had to leave for our morning flight to our honeymoon.

You can sleep when you're dead.

[Anonymous]

Nope

[Anonymous]

Ha, I don't remember. It had been a long day, I was 5 months pregnant, we had work to do around the house...so who knows.

[Anonymous]

Nope. Married twice, neither time. Both times we had been living together and the wedding days were long, exhausting, and full of alcohol.

[Anonymous]

Very normal - unless you were a virgin! On our wedding night we were at our hotel by 9pm as we had a noon wedding. I was in the bathroom getting "ready" and my DH was sitting on the floor watching a baseball game. When I came out my DH said the pitcher for his favorite team was throwing a no hitter and it was in about the 6th inning. After another inning or so I told him if he did not get in bed I was going to call in my own relief pitcher. He turned off the TV.

[Anonymous]

we had a few hours between the ceremony (small and intimate for family only) and the reception (big party). in those intervening hours, DH and I had hot sex, oral, etc. and we took a nap. After the reception, we fooled around a bit and passed out (it ended around 1:30 am), but had great morning sex.

we were in our early 40s, 2nd marriage for the both of us. Sex (and really good sex) is just really important to us.

[Anonymous]

Wedding can be an exhausting day and I would guess most people are to tired or drunk to have sex after being on for so long. Don't worry about it. Now if two weeks pass and still nothing then you have a problem

[Anonymous]

Had sex the next morning but he didn't orgasm. Was very perfunctory. Was the first sign that alcohol would cause problems in our marriage and sex life.

Only had sex a handful of times on a two week honeymoon. Another red flag!

He's low drive if you can't tell. Or maybe he doesn't love me.