While I'm sleeping..

[Anonymous]

I thought my spouse was doing this, but when I asked him about it he denied. The next time I reached over to touch him and he was completely soft. In this case he really was scratching his balls.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I used to do it occasionally in the hope that DW would wake and be interested. I don't think I'm alone in my thoughts on that subject, so.....

I mean, worst case scenario is I make myself cum. Best case, we have sex. There are times where I felt like she knew and just pretended to sleep. That made me want to point my load at her when I was finishing. Never did.

Lame. If you want sex, initiate it like a man, don't just lie their pulling your pud and hoping she notices. Frankly you deserve to be ignored every time.

[Anonymous]

Ah good ole dcum... confirming the death of passion in the marital bed since 2001. Sad.

[Anonymous]

Confront him? Why so adversarial?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's normal. Why should he leave the warm bed? Why do you feel you have a right to control him? Lots of people do this in front of each other and join in, too. It's part of having a healthy sex life together. I bet he'd like to have sex more often with you. Surprise the heck out of him and lean in on this one night. If he's anything like my husband, he'll adore you for it.

This is hot

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I used to do it occasionally in the hope that DW would wake and be interested. I don't think I'm alone in my thoughts on that subject, so.....

I mean, worst case scenario is I make myself cum. Best case, we have sex. There are times where I felt like she knew and just pretended to sleep. That made me want to point my load at her when I was finishing. Never did.

Lame. If you want sex, initiate it like a man, don't just lie their pulling your pud and hoping she notices. Frankly you deserve to be ignored every time.

I guess you need full detail. This would usually occur after her turning me away or her falling asleep with me touching her. I do appreciate your judgement, however

[Anonymous]

I sometimes wake up throbbing and she's asleep. She does not like to be awakened at 3 am for sex (unfortunately ...). But in the am, I am at my horniest and we usually have our best sex

[Anonymous]

I wish my DW would offer to lend a hand if she is awake.

I have never finished voluntarily in our bed by myself, but did actually have a wet dream after about 3 months drought. Seriously, women, we really do need that release one way or the other. Help him out for chrissakes...

[Anonymous]

Yeah, but she said it was frequent - not 3 months of drought.