Do you talk with friends about sex life?

[Anonymous]

My bff and I have very candid conversations about sex. Other friends and I have had some involved discussions, but the details aren't always included.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Guy here. Only complaints about my wife's disinterest in sex, and I heard the same from my buddies. Except, Monday mornings, if a guy asked how my weekend was, if I'd gotten laid I'd mention that and say it was a great weekend.

Oh no, here they come, the members of the deadbedroom club...

[Anonymous]

49 yr old here, single. Answer depends very much on the friend. I know nada about my long-married friends' husbands, frequency, specific acts, etc. Nor do I want to, because I and also friends with these men and I never want to greet them at a soccer potluck and think to myself, "Oh yeah, Todd, I was just wondering if you've been enjoying the anal now that you've gotten on top of your erectile dysfunction!"

But with SINGLE friends dating compulsively via match.com, tinder, etc.? yes. and i tell them a little about my sex life, too.

[Anonymous]

My ex-wife used to post on DCUM and other forums she belonged to about our sex life.

[Anonymous]

My best friends? Definitely.

Same, +1, I am surprised by these responses. I am actually an extremely private person (e.g. hate all social media), but I discuss everything with my best friends, these are people who have known me for decades from college days. We're talking about 3-4 people. Intimacy is whole point of lifelong friendships. I'm OK with DH doing the same. Although it is a little embarrassing, in some way I almost think it would be a good thing if he does: it is important to have someone to talk things out with, and provided the friend is also discreet and a "friend of the marriage," I think it is more likely than not helpful.