Do you talk with friends about sex life?
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Anonymous
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I did before I was married.
Now, never. |
Anonymous
| I never did until I separated and now a lot of my friends are confiding in me their sex lives with their husbands. I have learned way more about my friends than I ever wanted to know. Unfortunately my marriage blew up due to infidelity but our sex life wasn't the problem... apparently it is in a lot of my friends marriages. |
Anonymous
| A little bit. Details, no. Nobody knows the size of my dh's penis,or how well he gives oral sex. But that I have sex, give bjs, like sex, have had the kids comment about our sex life ... yes, I share that. |
Anonymous
| Before I was married, it was a frequent topic of conversation. Now that I'm married, it would feel like a violation. This might be a topic for another entire thread but a big difference between the guys I dated and the guy I married is the respect I have for my DH. |
Anonymous
| Yes! |
Anonymous
| With my single friends. Married friends, no. And, I really don't want to know the details about their husbands. |
Anonymous
+1 From college through single life we talked openly about sex all the time, but once we got married...nope. Only in the most general way, like if we're discussing birth control or TTC. |
Anonymous
| Ewwww gross that's the last thing I want to know about. |
Anonymous
| Guy here. Only complaints about my wife's disinterest in sex, and I heard the same from my buddies. Except, Monday mornings, if a guy asked how my weekend was, if I'd gotten laid I'd mention that and say it was a great weekend. |
Anonymous
| My closest girlfriends, two or three, know how sexually frustrated I am, but now I don't say much, because what is there to talk about at this point? |
Anonymous
| I wish my DW would talk about sex with her friends at her book group. Two possible outcomes: (1) she'd get some new ideas or (2) she'd find out that we do have a pretty good sex life. |
Anonymous
| No. Guy here, and if one guy were to mention details of sex with his DW, the other guys would now be picturing that DW naked in those acts. |
Anonymous
Those guy are obviously very immature and if they have problems it's not the wife imo. |
Anonymous
| I wish my DW would talk to her friends about sex. Then she might actually learn the some are still having sex with DH's. |
Anonymous
| DH specifically asked me not to do that, and I thought it was a reasonable request. So, what goes on in the bedroom, stays in the bedroom. |