Trying New Approach to Dating and Sex and It's Not Going Well..
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Anonymous
OP - I appreciate the thoughtful responses here. I agree that I probably am clueless about male sexuality. I have been giving this a lot of thought and realize that I need to focus on what I am looking for in that partner to grow old with. I am pretty smitten with one of these guys. I think I'll stick with my current MO. 
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Anonymous
| How many times have you fooled around with them? I started dating a guy in his late-40's and it took a couple sessions for him to be able to sustain an erection long enough for sex. After we got more comfortable with each other, the problem resolved. He still wasn't a rock-hard-from-start-to-finish type of guy, but we had fantastic sex. |
Anonymous
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Op what did you expect? Late 40s two kids. You're getting either the assholes who are just in it for the sex or the limp nice guy relationship guys who can't cut it in the sack . If they are nice and could c2ut it in the sack they wouldn't be on the market for youth date.
Unless you are objectively super attractive for your age and you'd know it if you were, so you're not, your dating options are limited. Functional men in their late 30s to 40s are all taken. If not the time when they are in the ma |
Anonymous
| market is not lengthy. You will need to get very lucky to find your unicorn and lasso him. |
Anonymous
| OP - The last comment was just stupid. I have met lots of great men who are good guys and good lovers. They just weren't for me. I don't see how you could judge on my level of attractiveness from my post and I don't see how it's relevant. I think one of the prior posters is right about not expecting a guy to be at his best the first time around. Practice makes perfect. |
Anonymous
| I am a recently divorced 46 year old. I guess I would be considered attractive. A friend recently set me up with a guy she really wants to be with but he has friend zoned her. She described me as beautiful in a good girl/bad girl kind of way. This guy is attractive but not someone I would approach in a bar. He has a great personality and the chemistry is ridiculous. I have been out with men who are wealthier and better looking but OMG! I won't go anywhere with him right now where something could happen because it will. Dying to screw this guy and shocked about it!!! I don't want a relationship at this point so if is a problem. |
Anonymous
+100000 |
Anonymous
TV commercials don't really mean much--lots of commercials for Chrysler products on TV but I don't know anyone who owns one or would want one. I have a lot of friends in their early 50s and none seem to have these problems. |
Anonymous
| My last BF got something from his doctor. Never had that problem again! He was 60. Just FYI |
Anonymous
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OP, this article made me think of you.
http://www.businessinsider.com/when-to-start-having-sex-in-relationship-2017-2 |
Anonymous
Don't be dishonest. Viagra, Cialis, and the third one (Levita?) all work if you give them some number of minutes to maintain erections. (They do not directly help with SSRI-related problems; that's a problem Prozac throws at the guy's nervous system.) Cialis seems to be the best. |
Anonymous
| Id take my time.there's always masturbation. |