My spouse is away on a trip, and I'm surprised at how relieved I am

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's hard if my wife travels. But when she dies, the kids are always in line because Indint let them get their way. They're little angels. Then, I feel less stress and we go have fin. I take them to the park, have fun outings, go out and do fun stuff in the whim. It's great. It helps foster my relationship with them without interference.

When she does, I obviously don't want her to die..

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The big majority of women, and men, that has issues with their spouse such as described here so many times, YOU are the ones that set up the dynamics. YOU have allowed the other person to act, say and do what they do.

What?? You sound like an abusive spouse-- "I had to hit you after you burned dinner. You set up the dynamic! You allowed me to do it!"

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