+1 If any stereotypes have been reinforced by my reading on here, it's that men care more about looks than anything else when it comes to sex. AND added to that, they care about sex more than anything else when it comes to make/female relationships (see one of the zillion threads where the married OP complains about his supposedly low libido wife - which really means he's only getting laid once a week, poor kitten - and contemplates a divorce or affair). |
I wrote that. I shifted to appreciating natural beauty and real conversations. Almost overnight I just started laughing at the fake tanning, too much makeup, obnoxious personalities of sorority girls I used to hook up with. Do note I sort of always had a thing for natural booky girls, but didn't really act on the interest until after undergrad. |
There are many ways my 40+ DW is hotter than my crazy-sexed 20s college GF. Other ways my crazy-sexed GF was hotter, beginning with the fact that the sex was crazy good.
But trying to compare them is pointless. You and she won't be 20 again. That wild college GF might be a bake-sale mom now who doesn't dream of doing the stuff she did then. I like the way my DW wraps around me, I like the way she knows what she likes and isn't bashful about saying it, and and I love the way she is as a mom. At this point, that is hot to me. (Oh, and good BJs damn sure help... Flame away DCUM moms, it's true...) |
My college girlfriend was a dripping wet sex maniac, my wife is the best lay of my life, it's been 16 years and it just gets better and better; they are incomparable. |
Forgot to say, my college girlfriend now has a nice big set of fat arms whereas my wife is still the piece of ass I married. |
I am sure she loves that she is a "piece of ass" to you... |
NP one woman's objection = another woman's turn-on |
She absolutely loves it, my DW is an absolute alpha in her field but every now and then she likes being spoken to like she's a truckstop waitress. I can't really explain it but it is absolutely not meant disrespectfully. |
Don't forget. Your wife was someones college girlfriend. There probably wasn't much that she didn't do. |
Yes!! That's the good part, who would want a virgin with blood like water? I wanted someone with as much lust in their heart as I have, my DW loved sport F-ing just as much as I did; once we got married we turned that energy on each other. If you want to be happy marry someone who's sense of adventure matches your own. |
Gross dude. Keep it to yourself :/ |
Yes. I'm still friends with her too, it was an amicable break up. She's getting married soon, lucky bastard. She was hot, down to earth and cool. If only.... |