DW Body Hair -- None Allowed? Double Standard?

[Anonymous]

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Never had a man request any amount of hair removal. It is all me. That said, I'm over 40.

[Anonymous]

I've shaved a few times... the grow back sucks. DW does a nice job keeping things trimmed. I'd love for once to eat at the barren Y but after shaving myself a few times I can totally understand the reasons not to...

im Dh 45 and never grew up around any hairless cats. so I'm used to some furberage down south...

[Anonymous]

I had surgery a couple of weeks ago that required shaving my furberage down there (which is my new name for it, FDT for short).

It's growing back now and it itches like crazy. I will never remove my FDT ever again.

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Anonymous wrote:... men who find it incredibly erotic for women's genitalia to be completely bare kind of freak me out because it indicates a sexual attraction to an immature body.

And there it is. Always comes out. I suppose women who prefer a clean shaved face on a man are also only sexually attracted to immature bodies? Gross.


Women, you can do what you want, but if you aren't willing to make accommodations to turn on your man, don't ever comment on his facial hair, haircut, clothing or shoes again. It's his business. And if you don't like it, you can jerk off to Brooks Brothers catalogs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Where do some of you women find these types of men to marry? You married a superficial man and this is the outcome. I have never had a guy in my
a relationship request such craziness. I'm sure your husband probably has other odd requests. Smh. Op I'm not sure if you have strong personality like I do, you tell him it ain't happening. He didn't marry you for that reason.

+1

WTF

[Anonymous]

long hair don't care

[Anonymous]

Showing my ignorance here, but when I shave bikini area it looks awful and stubbly after a day. I can't imagine the entire area looking like that and me having to do a delicate procedure in the shower every morning? I don't know anything -- do people do home waxing? How long does that last?

[Anonymous]

Mine slightly prefers waxed - otherwise whatever makes me happy. I like the brazilian feel so I go with it. I used to shave with an electric bikini shaver so there was no stubble/irritation issues.

I have friends that do their own brazilians - I ordered a spa quality kit. Hard wax. We'll see. Waxing lasts 3-6 weeks but doing it once a month seems average.

[Anonymous]

Patriarchal bullshit thread

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:... men who find it incredibly erotic for women's genitalia to be completely bare kind of freak me out because it indicates a sexual attraction to an immature body.

And there it is. Always comes out. I suppose women who prefer a clean shaved face on a man are also only sexually attracted to immature bodies? Gross.


Women, you can do what you want, but if you aren't willing to make accommodations to turn on your man, don't ever comment on his facial hair, haircut, clothing or shoes again. It's his business. And if you don't like it, you can jerk off to Brooks Brothers catalogs.

I don't comment on his decision to grow a beard, or stay clean shaven unless he asks. I certainly would be willing to accommodate him once in a while. As would he, I think. But, his body, his face, his junk, his hair. Period.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are all the DWs and DHs who have or want the shaving, brazilian etc under 40? Just curious, it really seems to be more of a recent thing.

Recent? Try the last 20 years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are all the DWs and DHs who have or want the shaving, brazilian etc under 40? Just curious, it really seems to be more of a recent thing.

Recent? Try the last 20 years.

+1. I'm a 50 DH and keep things trimmed tight, and DW is 45 and keeps timed to varying degrees including Brazilian, landing strip, sides trimmed, etc. it's been that way for 16 years and was like that with my previous GF, who I used to shave.

[Anonymous]

I think for the most part, younger guys like a little grooming below.

Men in their late 30s-plus could care less.

At least in my personal experience.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:... men who find it incredibly erotic for women's genitalia to be completely bare kind of freak me out because it indicates a sexual attraction to an immature body.

And there it is. Always comes out. I suppose women who prefer a clean shaved face on a man are also only sexually attracted to immature bodies? Gross.


Women, you can do what you want, but if you aren't willing to make accommodations to turn on your man, don't ever comment on his facial hair, haircut, clothing or shoes again. It's his business. And if you don't like it, you can jerk off to Brooks Brothers catalogs.

Np. We're not talking about facial hair though but pubic hair. Would you think it odd if women asked a man to shave off all of his body hair? What would you think of her and would you do it?