My wife is hot, but....

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:My wife is hot. I mean objectively hot. She is well built, is slender and keeps in shape. People compliment her on her looks. She looks good and is proud of it. The problem is she also is quite a bitch. Recently, on a trip to the UK she point to an obese woman and said "well, I could look like her AND also be a bitch." So, she recognizes she is a bitch. When I responded, "you could stop being a bitch" she said, "No, she can't." It's really sad, because it is her constant bitchiness that is a turn off and that is pushing me towards contemplating a divorce.


Most people who under eat and exercise a lot are bitchy. It's called hungry or better yet HANGRY. Feel her cream sauce.
Anonymous
Their are lots of women who are beautiful both inside and out. Thats like saying every guy with a big wang is a bad lover because he relies too much on their endowments.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:She is a bitch to you because you let her.

Why do you permit this?

There are plenty of other vaginas in the world. Many of them are connected to agreeable personalities!



So true, you should listen to this. My husband left his first wife because of the way he felt about himself when he was around his college sweetheart turned wife. In his words, I let her become a queen in our relationship and she was the queen of bitches. At some point he said he just couldn't imagine living the rest of his life feeling the way he felt around her and he left. She got everything, he got his life back and said living in a one bedroom for a while until he rebuilt his life was a far better option than continuing to live with her. Counseling, did they try it, yes, but she made fun of the woman who was there therapist as they were driving home, some people never change. He, happily remarried for 27 years and she never remarried with lots of failed long term boyfriends.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:She is a bitch to you because you let her.

Why do you permit this?

There are plenty of other vaginas in the world. Many of them are connected to agreeable personalities!



So true, you should listen to this. My husband left his first wife because of the way he felt about himself when he was around his college sweetheart turned wife. In his words, I let her become a queen in our relationship and she was the queen of bitches. At some point he said he just couldn't imagine living the rest of his life feeling the way he felt around her and he left. She got everything, he got his life back and said living in a one bedroom for a while until he rebuilt his life was a far better option than continuing to live with her. Counseling, did they try it, yes, but she made fun of the woman who was there therapist as they were driving home, some people never change. He, happily remarried for 27 years and she never remarried with lots of failed long term boyfriends.


How happy can you be if for 27 years you're still checking up on your ex?

Maybe she wants boyfriends and not marriage.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:She is a bitch to you because you let her.

Why do you permit this?

There are plenty of other vaginas in the world. Many of them are connected to agreeable personalities!



So true, you should listen to this. My husband left his first wife because of the way he felt about himself when he was around his college sweetheart turned wife. In his words, I let her become a queen in our relationship and she was the queen of bitches. At some point he said he just couldn't imagine living the rest of his life feeling the way he felt around her and he left. She got everything, he got his life back and said living in a one bedroom for a while until he rebuilt his life was a far better option than continuing to live with her. Counseling, did they try it, yes, but she made fun of the woman who was there therapist as they were driving home, some people never change. He, happily remarried for 27 years and she never remarried with lots of failed long term boyfriends.


How happy can you be if for 27 years you're still checking up on your ex?

Maybe she wants boyfriends and not marriage.


NP

Maybe you are making a big assumption. After all, some people don't live in big cities and general knowledge comes easily.
Anonymous
OP, sounds like your wife isn't satisfied sexually.

Anonymous
If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife. ?
Anonymous
Let me guess. She's 12 years younger than you?
Anonymous
No. We are four years apart.
Anonymous
Wait, you mean to us that you just realized beauty is skin deep?
Anonymous
Sounds like you married her for her beauty vs. her character.

If that is indeed the case here, sorry.
Anonymous
Watch this dumb but still entertaining movie for tips...

http://content.time.com/time/arts/article/0,8599,1668864,00.html
Anonymous
Why did you marry her?
Anonymous
Before getting married I had a girl friend that was a tall blond 10. Everywhere we would go every guy aged 15 to 115 would stare at her. Problem was she could be both a bitch and a Princess. No matter how good looking she was I couldn't deal with it.

Long story short, your never going to be happily married with this type of girl. Not worth it.

Anonymous
people are accusing OP for marrying for looks yet the majority of these posts are by stay at home moms who say their husbands earn a ton and they'd only marry someone who was a human piggy bank. Hypocrites!
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