Did you ever marry someone KNOWING it wouldn't work?

[Anonymous]

My best friend did. They've been married 15 years. She's not happy. He's a multimillionaire (we are talking over 100 million at least in his stocks), so I guess that helps.

[Anonymous]

God no! Why the hell would I punish myself in such a manner? Just to claim I'm married? Money? Looks? Desperate? No thanks!

[Anonymous]

This makes me so sad to write this but after our marriage ceremony and we were headed down the aisle and to the elevator to the reception:

I remember thinking "I did him the the biggest injustice in the world - I married him and I don't love him the way I should."

We've been married 15 years. Still hurts.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What happened? Are you happy now? Why didn't you get out?

Yes. I'm a wuss.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This makes me so sad to write this but after our marriage ceremony and we were headed down the aisle and to the elevator to the reception:

I remember thinking "I did him the the biggest injustice in the world - I married him and I don't love him the way I should."

We've been married 15 years. Still hurts.

Sounds like you might have more of an expectations problem than a relationship problem. How "should" you love someone? Do you love him? Being together that long must mean you've shared a lot. How can you said it hasn't worked?

[Anonymous]

Woman. Married in late 20s. Didn't even consider that marriages might be hard or easy. I have to say ... easy.