Do you ever tell your dh or dw to go to hell?
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Anonymous
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No, not because I can't get behind the sentiment, but because I don't believe in hell.
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Anonymous
| No. I tell him to f-k off. He can be a jackass. |
Anonymous
| In my head. Every day. |
Anonymous
| once in a blue moon, yes |
Anonymous
| Never. Can't even imagine someone treating me that way |
Anonymous
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I don't
My husband's ex wife did all the time. Very abusive relationship so I do my best to control myself. Also my parents were very nasty with each other when I was a child and I remember that and how it made me feel so I try to model better for the kids. |
Anonymous
No, it just means you have a dis-respectable marriage. |
Anonymous
| Never. Granted DH has never done anything to get that much of a ride out of me. It takes a lot for me to get mad/annoyed so that's a big part of it. |
Anonymous
| No, mainly because I think it is a dumb thing to say. Like I have a pipeline to the nether regions. |
Anonymous
Disrepect can come in many different forms. |
Anonymous
| Never. Married 29 years. We don't talk to each other like that. |
Anonymous
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"Oh come the fuck on", frequently
Go to hell feels a bit harsh |
Anonymous
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No
"Get the f*** out of my face" is my phrase. |
Anonymous
| Yes sure. It's no big deal really. DH and I are both the firey type. I think we're open enough with each other about passing fruatrations that it never ends up gettig truly ugly, if that makes sense. We always make up quickly once one sees clearly they pushed the other to the "go to hell" point. I honestly don't get people who who keep emotions under wraps in the home. We are both very expressive, and that definitely goes for the positive, loving emotions too. |
Anonymous
| That's funny, because my first reaction was that I would never....but I reflected a moment and we did have some terrible arguments where we told one another "F#%* you" which didn't seem as bad when I first read the question. The argument in which this was said was regarding spouse's cheating, so I guess respect was long gone anyway. |