Building a new home, how big to make the dining room, home is 7-9000sf

[Anonymous]

Perhaps a person who was having a rough day, having money problems, or just a jealous person all around...but today in this forum there has been some very snarky comments. I've never seen this in this particular forum and it's quite disheartening. If you can't relate or disagree simply click out. No need to throw the Op's under a bus.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I think people building mansions should stop asking advice from the hoi polloi. What do you think will come of it?

But I will also give my general house building advice, which is--however much closer space you anticipated--double it. Then double it again. I would gladly give up my stupid dining room so that the board games don't fall on my head every time I open the coat closet.

Signed,
Person with a lot of kids in a 3000 (or 4500, not sure if they count the basement on zillow) sf home.

Sounds like have a lot of crap.

Yes, I have a lot of crap. I have a lot of kids of different ages and that generates a lot of crap. Plus lots and lots of books, random crap that was my grandmothers or her grandmothers that I can't really bear to throw out, and stuff like Christmas decorations, luggage, etc. I never buy myself anything but freely admit I have a lot of crap. But I think most people underestimate the amount of closet space they need for stuff like holiday decorations, linens, luggage, board games, hand-me down clothes that the younger kids have not yet grown into (that's a whole closet on my house). kids' craft supplies and toys you don't want visible all the time, etc. etc.

[Anonymous]

OP, that seems reasonable to me for that size house. My friend's dinning room is slightly larger and her house is about 10K. She hosts great holiday dinners there and her table can fit 12.

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Anonymous wrote:You need to have a very large dining room, probably twice the size the architect is recommending.

This is so it can accommodate the table that will seat a minimum of 16 so that you and your spouse can sit on opposite ends to dine.

And, so there is plenty of space for the servants to move about.

C'mon people.....7-9K is not that big....

Are you kidding? It's huge. It's intentionally pretentious and intended to show you have money. There's no practical reason to build a house of that size unless you happen to be a family with a shitload of kids. The concept of 10,000 sq ft houses being anything other than garish is absurd to me

It's ok bud. Not everyone can live large.

Hah, I'm a multi millionaire, I'm just not one defined by being gauche and ostentatious

Well woopty doo. Good for you. Can people just live? It doesn't affect you in any way? Simply ignore the thread. You know nothing about Op.

Sure op can go build her ugly house. I don't care. I was asking if someone genuinely believed 7-9K wasn't big. It's a discussion forum after all, not a circle jerk.

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Anonymous wrote:You need to have a very large dining room, probably twice the size the architect is recommending.

This is so it can accommodate the table that will seat a minimum of 16 so that you and your spouse can sit on opposite ends to dine.

And, so there is plenty of space for the servants to move about.

C'mon people.....7-9K is not that big....

Are you kidding? It's huge. It's intentionally pretentious and intended to show you have money. There's no practical reason to build a house of that size unless you happen to be a family with a shitload of kids. The concept of 10,000 sq ft houses being anything other than garish is absurd to me

It's ok bud. Not everyone can live large.

Hah, I'm a multi millionaire, I'm just not one defined by being gauche and ostentatious

Well woopty doo. Good for you. Can people just live? It doesn't affect you in any way? Simply ignore the thread. You know nothing about Op.

Sure op can go build her ugly house. I don't care. I was asking if someone genuinely believed 7-9K wasn't big. It's a discussion forum after all, not a circle jerk.

I'm a jerk for telling you that you were wrong. Mmmkay

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Anonymous wrote:You need to have a very large dining room, probably twice the size the architect is recommending.

This is so it can accommodate the table that will seat a minimum of 16 so that you and your spouse can sit on opposite ends to dine.

And, so there is plenty of space for the servants to move about.

C'mon people.....7-9K is not that big....

Are you kidding? It's huge. It's intentionally pretentious and intended to show you have money. There's no practical reason to build a house of that size unless you happen to be a family with a shitload of kids. The concept of 10,000 sq ft houses being anything other than garish is absurd to me

It's ok bud. Not everyone can live large.

Hah, I'm a multi millionaire, I'm just not one defined by being gauche and ostentatious

Well woopty doo. Good for you. Can people just live? It doesn't affect you in any way? Simply ignore the thread. You know nothing about Op.

Sure op can go build her ugly house. I don't care. I was asking if someone genuinely believed 7-9K wasn't big. It's a discussion forum after all, not a circle jerk.

I'm a jerk for telling you that you were wrong. Mmmkay

I said circle jerk. Google it if you don't know what it means.

[Anonymous]

I think you may be a troll. If you have that kind of money, you should be consulting with multiple architects and designers. Don't insult a professional architect by going back to him/her with "well these bozos on dcum think..."

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Anonymous wrote:You need to have a very large dining room, probably twice the size the architect is recommending.

This is so it can accommodate the table that will seat a minimum of 16 so that you and your spouse can sit on opposite ends to dine.

And, so there is plenty of space for the servants to move about.

C'mon people.....7-9K is not that big....

What?! Yes it is

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Listen to architect. Absurd to make it a little room in giant house.

This. Room needs to be proportional to the rooms in the rest of the house. Also make sure one long end of the room is a wide cased opening. That way if you do need to fit more people in the room for holidays there is room to expand.

[Anonymous]

Are you the poster with 11 bathrooms?

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Anonymous wrote:You need to have a very large dining room, probably twice the size the architect is recommending.

This is so it can accommodate the table that will seat a minimum of 16 so that you and your spouse can sit on opposite ends to dine.

And, so there is plenty of space for the servants to move about.

C'mon people.....7-9K is not that big....

Are you kidding? It's huge. It's intentionally pretentious and intended to show you have money. There's no practical reason to build a house of that size unless you happen to be a family with a shitload of kids. The concept of 10,000 sq ft houses being anything other than garish is absurd to me

It's ok bud. Not everyone can live large.

Hah, I'm a multi millionaire, I'm just not one defined by being gauche and ostentatious

Well woopty doo. Good for you. Can people just live? It doesn't affect you in any way? Simply ignore the thread. You know nothing about Op.

Sure op can go build her ugly house. I don't care. I was asking if someone genuinely believed 7-9K wasn't big. It's a discussion forum after all, not a circle jerk.

Do you think white house is butt ugly because it is large?

[Anonymous]

I'm worried - really worried - about whether you're including enough bathrooms for a dining room of that size. You know what happens - put food in one end and it starts coming out the other! Of course if you don't have that many big dinners you could always go with porta potties, prn.

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Anonymous wrote:You need to have a very large dining room, probably twice the size the architect is recommending.

This is so it can accommodate the table that will seat a minimum of 16 so that you and your spouse can sit on opposite ends to dine.

And, so there is plenty of space for the servants to move about.

C'mon people.....7-9K is not that big....

Are you kidding? It's huge. It's intentionally pretentious and intended to show you have money. There's no practical reason to build a house of that size unless you happen to be a family with a shitload of kids. The concept of 10,000 sq ft houses being anything other than garish is absurd to me

It's ok bud. Not everyone can live large.

Hah, I'm a multi millionaire, I'm just not one defined by being gauche and ostentatious

Well woopty doo. Good for you. Can people just live? It doesn't affect you in any way? Simply ignore the thread. You know nothing about Op.

Sure op can go build her ugly house. I don't care. I was asking if someone genuinely believed 7-9K wasn't big. It's a discussion forum after all, not a circle jerk.

Do you think white house is butt ugly because it is large?

The White House isn't a "house", you know that right? There are 450 people who work there in some capacity and a full 96 that are groundskeepers, electricians, etc. There are 5 chefs. 6,000 people a day visit the White House. Beyond that, it's obviously a symbol of American government. The comparison is pretty stupid.

But yes, if someone built a replica of the White House as their personal residence in McLean somewhere you wouldn't find it pretty obscene?

[Anonymous]

Personally I would stick with the large dining room. Keep in mind that you can use the dining room for storage in ways you might not think of. For example I routinely keep bowls of fruit on my dining room buffet. I have an enormous china cabinet that I keep all sorts of things stored in, very useful. If you get creative you can make a large dining room more useful than you'd think. Plus your kids might wind up liking to use it as a spot to do games, homework, etc. if the seats are comfortable enough.

[Anonymous]

Did you see the 20K size home?

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