Do you need to be beautiful to marry rich?

[Anonymous]

You do not need to be pretty, nor do you have have to be blonde. You need to know how to do your make-up and need to know how to dress provocatively without looking slutty. You need act confident and make the guy think his lucky to have you. You can't be too needy and you have to make the guy think that you want him, not that you need him. You have to hide your resentment when he treats you like shit. You have to put up with being put down. You have to put out whenever he wants it even if you don't. You have to lie. A lot. Lie about who you are, how you feel, what you want. You can never really be yourself. It's a shitty job. You are always under someone else's thumb. Go to school and try to make it on your own. You might not be fabulously wealthy, but you will have a comfortable life and you'll be a lot happier. More money will not make you happy. I married for money and it was hell.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Blow jobs. Lots and lots of high quality blow jobs.

[b]

This is true. I know a girl (you know, the slutty look type) who made it her mission to bag a rich guy and broke up a doctor and his doctor girlfriend (she's was brilliant but plain) with great blow jobs and then married him. She was and is a going nowhere loser and her husband gives her an allowance. She doesn't work and still gives blowjobs.

Brilliant plain Doctor isn't married, but she's travelled around the world and volunteers for Doctors Without Borders. If I could go the other way, I'd totally marry her, she's fabulous. She's from the DC area, so if you're reading this I think you're amazing, I really do.

You are very oddly infatuated with your friend's life. Too bad they don't teach blowjobs in medical school.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You do not need to be pretty, nor do you have have to be blonde. You need to know how to do your make-up and need to know how to dress provocatively without looking slutty. You need act confident and make the guy think his lucky to have you. You can't be too needy and you have to make the guy think that you want him, not that you need him. You have to hide your resentment when he treats you like shit. You have to put up with being put down. You have to put out whenever he wants it even if you don't. You have to lie. A lot. Lie about who you are, how you feel, what you want. You can never really be yourself. It's a shitty job. You are always under someone else's thumb. Go to school and try to make it on your own. You might not be fabulously wealthy, but you will have a comfortable life and you'll be a lot happier. More money will not make you happy. I married for money and it was hell.

It's unfortunate that your situation didn't work out. Mine did though, and I can tell you that DH puts me on a pedestal and has NEVER put me down or treated me like shit. If you have true confidence you don't settle for anything less than money AND love. And trust me, you can get both.

[Anonymous]

Being merely pretty enough is plenty. Being generous in your praise is everything. Also being his cheerleader at work, not a pouty malcontent about late nights and cancelled plans.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Being merely pretty enough is plenty. Being generous in your praise is everything. Also being his cheerleader at work, not a pouty malcontent about late nights and cancelled plans.

+1. Be supportive and understanding. Applaud accomplishment. Pick up the slack in other areas so that your lives are easier and less stressful.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Blow jobs. Lots and lots of high quality blow jobs.

Be good with make up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Blow jobs. Lots and lots of high quality blow jobs.

Be good with make up.

These are asinine and won't get you to the altar. Educated successful men are, as a general rule, slow to commit to marriage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Blow jobs. Lots and lots of high quality blow jobs.

[b]

This is true. I know a girl (you know, the slutty look type) who made it her mission to bag a rich guy and broke up a doctor and his doctor girlfriend (she's was brilliant but plain) with great blow jobs and then married him. She was and is a going nowhere loser and her husband gives her an allowance. She doesn't work and still gives blowjobs.

Brilliant plain Doctor isn't married, but she's travelled around the world and volunteers for Doctors Without Borders. If I could go the other way, I'd totally marry her, she's fabulous. She's from the DC area, so if you're reading this I think you're amazing, I really do.

You are very oddly infatuated with your friend's life. Too bad they don't teach blowjobs in medical school.

[b]

What a strange comment! The doctors were in our circle of friends and we were all very close. Then the blow job lady came along and it kind of ruined the friendships. Obviously we all took the girlfriend's side and we aren't as friendly with the guy anymore.

[Anonymous]

This thread is such a depressing race to the bottom.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You do not need to be pretty, nor do you have have to be blonde. You need to know how to do your make-up and need to know how to dress provocatively without looking slutty. You need act confident and make the guy think his lucky to have you. You can't be too needy and you have to make the guy think that you want him, not that you need him. You have to hide your resentment when he treats you like shit. You have to put up with being put down. You have to put out whenever he wants it even if you don't. You have to lie. A lot. Lie about who you are, how you feel, what you want. You can never really be yourself. It's a shitty job. You are always under someone else's thumb. Go to school and try to make it on your own. You might not be fabulously wealthy, but you will have a comfortable life and you'll be a lot happier. More money will not make you happy. I married for money and it was hell.

It's unfortunate that your situation didn't work out. Mine did though, and I can tell you that DH puts me on a pedestal and has NEVER put me down or treated me like shit. If you have true confidence you don't settle for anything less than money AND love. And trust me, you can get both.

I know a girl who married for money but her husband is an asshole. That post pretty much describes her life.

There are many other women who marry for money AND love and find adorable amazing guys who happen to be rich.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Being merely pretty enough is plenty. Being generous in your praise is everything. Also being his cheerleader at work, not a pouty malcontent about late nights and cancelled plans.

+1. Be supportive and understanding. Applaud accomplishment. Pick up the slack in other areas so that your lives are easier and less stressful.

+100. This is also how you KEEP a wealthy/high earning man after you're married. Start taking the income for granted and you'll find yourself out on the curb in favor of a younger, prettier, and most importantly more grateful option.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You do not need to be pretty, nor do you have have to be blonde. You need to know how to do your make-up and need to know how to dress provocatively without looking slutty. You need act confident and make the guy think his lucky to have you. You can't be too needy and you have to make the guy think that you want him, not that you need him. You have to hide your resentment when he treats you like shit. You have to put up with being put down. You have to put out whenever he wants it even if you don't. You have to lie. A lot. Lie about who you are, how you feel, what you want. You can never really be yourself. It's a shitty job. You are always under someone else's thumb. Go to school and try to make it on your own. You might not be fabulously wealthy, but you will have a comfortable life and you'll be a lot happier. More money will not make you happy. I married for money and it was hell.

sounds like a job of a high class whore

[Anonymous]

Female here. I am cute (not beautiful) and rich, and I did not marry rich, FWIW.

[Anonymous]

No. Plenty of examples. You do need to be in the right place at the right time.