Trying to figure out my husband

[Anonymous]

OP is the crazy one here.

OP get thee to therapy.

Your poor DH.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like a typical, stubborn mule man.

Sorry you have kids OP. I would seriously think about divorce. Start lining your ducks in a row, get to where you need to be in your career.

This is what Oprah would call an "aha moment". Don't waste it, dont shrug it off, dont think "Maybe I was wrong".

What you described sounds like plenty of loser men I know, none of which I would want to spend much time with, let alone be married to.

Pull the trigger now, dont waste any more time.

She risks all their lives because she's stupidly determined to send a pointless text AND have her own way, but he is the "stubborn mule"? Uh huh.

If she divorces him over this triviality then she is batshit crazy -- just like you are batshit crazy for recommending divorce. But based on her behavior, she is batshit crazy... and maybe the husband is better off without her.