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I was never good at obvious flirting, and was confused when my female friends told me that I was great at flirting. I realized that it was just when I was going out of my way to be nice to someone. Once you stop feeling self conscious and focus on making the other person comfortable and happy, they will like you. Whether they are female or male.
IN my (not expert) opinion, I would relax the focus on boyfriends and just start being more social and generous to everyone. good luck. It's difficult when you try but don't mesh well with people despite your attempts. |
| You don't have to 'flirt', you just have to be friendly. Smile, be nice, ask questions and be interested in finding out more about that person. Don't worry about you, your shaking hands, your dry lips, etc. Focus on them. |