When did I ovulate? cm question

[Anonymous]

nirnally I'd say once a week isn't enough but if it's been 4 years of that then a work up at the RE isn't a bad idea, just to see if you do have issues.
I had problems getting and staying pregnant and it really can mess with the man's head if he thinks the sex is just for procreation. Just an idea but maybe stop stressing that aspect, get some new lingerie and shake things up a bit? They really are visual creatures and it might help with the frequency aspect.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Op, I hate to say this but you're not going to get pregnant if you're having sex once a week. It's very very unlikely. DH doesn't have a high drive but he knew what we had to do and got on board for every other day, sometimes 2 days in a row. Sometimes it took a little imagination and tricks to get him up and more often than not I didn't have an orgasm, but we did it cause we knew we had to. Business sex sucks but it is what it is! Especially after trying for 8 months!
If he truly can't perform, can he take Viagra or something?

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+1. Once a week just isn't enough. I would do every other day during the fertile method. Sometimes when we just couldn't physically have sex again (it's tiring!), DH would masturbate to the point of climax and then finish inside me. That worked very well!

I wish. Problem is my husband can easily send me to a doctor, jerk off and hope to get me pregnant. He resents having to have sex for procreation. He says he wants to have sex for pleasure only.

Ugh. I can so relate to this. We are having sex every other day during the fertile period, but DH is having a hard time with it.

[Anonymous]

Op here. Looks like ovulation was day 19. I got my period. It seriously drives me nuts that my husband won't have sex more frequently. Next cycle I almost want to demand he has sex within the ovulation window and if he won't do it then refuse to go through with Ivf. If he won't even have sex why should I have to have fertility treatments? What's worse is I've learned I can't count on him for sex. Everything has to be perfect for him to want to have sex. He has to be in the right state of mind, well rested, not too full, no alcohol etc. It is just too much and I'm over it.

[Anonymous]

Op here. We had sex twice this month. twice. Omg.

[Anonymous]

I'm sorry, OP. That sucks. Would he be willing to try Viagra on your fertile days?