Funny joke, or antagonistic?

[Anonymous]

Funny. You need to take a chill pill.

[Anonymous]

It's funny. Turn it around on him next time and text back "no worries. The gentleman sitting next to me has agreed to take me anywhere I want to go. Don't wait up. Bye"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He does this kind of thing frequently--intentionally tries to cause stress or "push buttons."

DH does this sort of thing to me, but it's intended as gentle teasing. For us, it would have ended when I texted that I'd just landed at Dulles: he'd either confess he was teasing, or make it more ridiculous so that it was clear it was a joke.

I think it's fair to talk about how some of his "jokes" stress you out. If he takes it over a certain line (say, when you ask if he's being serious, and he knows you are getting stressed out), it is very unkind

[Anonymous]

It would annoy me if he did this sort of thing often.

There are other ways he can show you his sense of humor.

Geez.