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My DH and I are in our mid-40s and have a similar take-home amount ($13,500 per month). Good for you for having that (and $200K in retirement) at your young age.
Our kids are older (6, 10, 13) and we spend about $1500/month on activities (tutoring, tennis, piano, swim team, ballet, gymnastics, etc). Also, we spend about $600/month on travel/vacations. So we have a small not-great house. |
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DH and I are mid-30s and have similar take-home as you without the bonus and with a lower mortgage and almost double the childcare costs, and we've got about double your retirement (about $500K) and $50K in 529s. If you've got $5k leftover every month, you need to be allocating more to retirement. Your emergency fund sounds okay, though.
I do think you underestimated costs on your budget. Are you using a tracking program? |