LOLLLLL! I was just wondering this recently -- how do you get clean in all the important cracks and crevices with no washcloth (or to get even blacker with it, the washrag)? |
| This is an interesting question I need to grapple with sooner rather than later as I am pregnant by my white husband. I think we will check all of the boxes like pressing all of the buttons in the elevator. |
No, check "black". URMs get huge bump. |
What do yo do with the washcloth after you use it? Single use only I hope? |
As a technically mixed race person, I found there's a certain tyranny in having to check all the boxes. I appreciate my family history and culture, but just don't feel like I owe it to every ancestor to represent them. I picked the one the most feels like "home" to me. |
We do single use because I wash my butt last. I don't have a separate asscloth. |
This is fascinating.
So, if you have 5 people and do laundry once a week - 5 x 7 = 35 washcloth? That's a LOT of washcloth!! |
Well, a wash cloth is like 1/10th the size of a towel and we actually do laundry twice a week for 4 people. I grew up this way and was in college before I realized people didn't use washcloths. It seems normal to me. |
Good example of the complexity behind OP's question. According to some of the responses so far, Obama would not be classified as AA -- he's no descendant of slaves. |
| Lily white here and use washcloths. What did I miss? |
So, your conclusion is that President Obama is not African-American. |
Like being a transgender. |
I did a genetics analysis and found out that I'm about 1% sub-Saharan African. Affirmative action here I come! |
I don't think Obama intially identified as AA when he was young. (White mother, raised by white grandparents, little contact with his father) Our culture rapidly informed him that he is AA. You don't get out of having an AA identity if you look like he does. My cousin's kid is biracial. She didn't have much contact with her black relatives, either, but she isn't allowed to identify as white or mostly white by our culture. She's black. If she forgets that she's black, somebody is going to remind her that she's black. |
Turn the racists' rule around on them: One Drop. |