This exactly. Join a school for the long term, not because you are only staying one year and will not join the community. This is a completely rational request. If you don't understand it then you don't understand what it takes to build s stable school community. |
I cannot comment on exactly zip codes or whether someone definitely owns their house or not. But I suspect my knowledge matches up with what you are getting at. About 10-15. To other schools for PK4? About 30-40. You might say those numbers are small, but it isn't like I know a 1000 people. |
I agree too, although there's nothing you can do to legally prevent it. I think anyone suggesting that is just being silly. But it is a true phenomenon, and explains different attitudes. |
There are some things about this post that I agree with and other things I disagree with. Firstly, it has not been my experience that the upper NW families at our lower NW Title 1 school are not invested in the school. What I have observed is that even the families who are not active participants in school activities (don't regularly attend PTA meetings, don't volunteer in the classroom, don't come to midday school events) contribute financially, which is frankly very helpful in a school where 50%+ kids are "at risk." We had people donating $100, $250 to the PTA at the beginning of the year who I have never seen again. I value those contributions, even if I know that I cannot count on them again next year. That $100 sponsors a kindergarten field trip. That $250 helps pay for pizza for evening school events, which we then do not charge for. As for the disruption that occurs when families leave the school, I can't disagree with that, but frankly, this is a very transient city. People move around for a lot of reasons, so there will always be someone coming to school one year and not the next. I think the issue is not WOTP OOBers "taking seats from" (quotes because the WOTP OOBers have as much right to and chance of being offered those seats as any other OOB kid in the city) neighborhood kids that is the problem. It's those kids "taking seats from" kids in adjacent neighborhoods who are more likely to stay. That said, those kids also have an IB school that they might prefer. Unless you are entering the OOB lottery because you really and truly are not willing to attend your IB school, there's always the possibility that a 3/4yo student will not return for kindergarten. I do not approve the resentment and feuds between families about school. It doesn't do right by any of our kids, regardless of whether you live in a housing project or a million dollar mansion. I personally believe that it is important to contribute as much as you are willing/able, for as long as you are around. If that's one school year, I really appreciate the families who show up for events and write checks for that year. If it's for more than one year, I am just as grateful every time. The contributions to our school made in PK3 and PK4 of the family who leaves to go to their IB WOTP school for kindergarten are not negated by their departure. Stop sniping at each other about this. There are better battles to fight. |
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IB families have preference in the lottery. Don't try to shift the blame to OOB families when it's the IB families who are electing not to send their kiddos to "lower NW schools."
BTW, it's Capitol Hill, which is located in the Nation's Capital. And I think the days of Brent or Peabody families parking kids at SWS, LT or Tyler SI for two years of PK are pretty much over. However, Van Ness may still be an option given the number of IB families and short waitlist this year. |
This is one of the reasons that we are paying for private this year (PK3) instead of sending our kid to the DCPS ECE OOB where we lotteried in. It seemed kind of wrong to take a spot in a school where we 100% knew we wouldn't stay past PK4. |
Bumping my question because I still don't see an answer. FS and Marie Reed are decent guesses but I would be surprised, because they are both popular with WLs, are they not? Certainly MR has a long WL. I thought FS did too. Also it's unusual to refer to Adams Morgan as "lower NW". I am at an EOTP school and yes, I have seen JKLM/Oyster parents at our open houses hoping to use our school for PK3 or even PK4. I have never resented them for trying. We all gotta do what we gotta do in this city. We have so many IB on the WL that the JKLM/O applicants don't have a snowflake's chance, so it's academic anyway. So OP or anyone else, can you tell us which are these schools that are simultaneously so attractive to JKLM/O that they choose it over private preschool, yet have a lot of space for OOB, so much space that one of them is even one quarter full of Oyster IB? I am not saying I don't believe it but I am still scratching my head as to which schools fit this description. It must be schools that have very small geographic boundaries or small number of public school kids relative to PK class sizes? Which are these schools in lower NW? I know that Hearst fits this description in upper NW. |
| Just as an aside, this happens in other ways at JKLMs as well. At Lafayette a whole slew of PKers leave after PK to head to Blessed Sacrement. It happens - everyone survives. |
I was just going to post this. It happens frequently yet life goes on. |
+100 |
No. OP here. We want our classes full. But at K we get OOB kids who are underprepared who could have been in our school since PK3 but were displaced by Ward 3 families who were space hogging for a year or two. Surely you remember what it feels like to have students who need a bit of a lift JKLM? Seems like Ward 3's progressive values go out the window when they have can free daycare. |
+1 |
But most likely those students are at PK3 elsewhere or would not have chosen to go to PK at all. Not sure why you think they would be better prepared at your school than anywhere else. |
Lower NW comprises the Cardozo Feeder schools for the most part from Tubman and Bruce Monroe in the north to Marie Reed in the West across to Marie Reed, Garrison, Seaton, Cleveland and Thompson. I don't think Ross or FS with their long WLs have lots of upper NW squatters at them for PK. |
You are responding to my question. Really?? I have never heard this area referred to as "lower NW", on DCUM or anywhere. It's usually "EOTP" on DCUM, and if you are going as far east as Seaton and Cleveland in Shaw/Le Droit/Bloomingdale, then that's usually referred to as center city or near NW. If "lower NW" means anything, it would more logically refer to Georgetown. Anyway OP has posted again since my question was repeated, and still hasn't answered, so he or she is obviously more interested in stirring the pot than having a real conversation about this. |