DH doesn't know where I work.

[Anonymous]

DW has been a partner in her company for 20 years and her actual title has changed a few times. I have no idea what is is now, or what she actually does day to day. If someone asks I say "she's a partner in XYZ Marketing and Communications." If they press me about what she does there, I say "I dunno, marketing and communications."

I manage an entire IT department. If someone asked DW what I did she'd say, "I dunno, computer stuff?"

[Anonymous]

My DH only knows in the very broadest sense where I work/what I do. And since I change projects every 6 months or so, he doesn't always know the team I'm currently working with or topic. We don't talk about work much - not enough time (or interest).

Equally, I don't really know which department he works in ... I could guess but I'm really not that interested.

Our marriage is going very well, though.

So, OP, I wouldn't think twice about it.

[Anonymous]

If he is otherwise good to you, kind, caring, respects your feelings, etc., I would write it off to a man not paying attention to details. If this were all I had to worry about in my marriage, I'd be ecstatic! Now if it is part of a bigger picture of him not being interested in you, your life, who you are, then it's a larger concern.

[Anonymous]

OP, you have too much time on your hands. Maybe double down at work instead of ruminating about this kind of crap?

[Anonymous]

I hate to break the bad news to most of the DCUM participants, but if you're a Gubmint employee most non-Gubmint workers think that you're worthless pieces of shit no matter what title you make up for yourselves!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I hate to break the bad news to most of the DCUM participants, but if you're a Gubmint employee most non-Gubmint workers think that you're worthless pieces of shit no matter what title you make up for yourselves!

Hahaha! I think that's where the term: "good for you" came from. It's another way of telling someone that you really don't give a fuck!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I hate to break the bad news to most of the DCUM participants, but if you're a Gubmint employee most non-Gubmint workers think that you're worthless pieces of shit no matter what title you make up for yourselves!

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I hate to break the bad news to most of the DCUM participants, but if you're a Gubmint employee most non-Gubmint workers think that you're worthless pieces of shit no matter what title you make up for yourselves!

I don't get this -- I've never worked for the government, but my friends who do are smart, diligent, dedicated people. They care about what they're doing and put in long hours. So where did this horrible stereotype about government workers come from? Why do people assume every federal employee is like the worst DMV clerk?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I hate to break the bad news to most of the DCUM participants, but if you're a Gubmint employee most non-Gubmint workers think that you're worthless pieces of shit no matter what title you make up for yourselves!

I don't get this -- I've never worked for the government, but my friends who do are smart, diligent, dedicated people. They care about what they're doing and put in long hours. So where did this horrible stereotype about government workers come from? Why do people assume every federal employee is like the worst DMV clerk?

Your friends are probably the exception to the norm. Most of them aren't smarter than a fifth grader!