I literally caught DH in the act cheating and HE STILL denies everything.

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[Post New]02/15/2015 08:12
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Anonymous
Your fault for walking out all tippy-toed OP. Should have busted in screaming "WTF?!!" and then stormed off to your hotel room
[Post New]02/15/2015 08:15
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Anonymous
I'm sorry for you and your innocent children. Does he seem to love his children at all?
[Post New]02/15/2015 08:58
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Anonymous
Look at him like he's an idiot when he insists you didn't see them. He's trying to upset and trick you. Fuck that.
[Post New]02/15/2015 09:32
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Your fault for walking out all tippy-toed OP. Should have busted in screaming "WTF?!!" and then stormed off to your hotel room


No, it's not.

OP, please don't let ANYONE shift the blame to you.
[Post New]02/15/2015 11:17
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Anonymous
Hmmm. I never understand this. I would have screamed, thrown shit...I can't comprehend just closing the door and backing out. I
[Post New]02/15/2015 11:49
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:In THE ACT, in our bedroom. I opened the door, saw, closed the door and walked out. He called me to say i didn't see what i saw. I really don't get the denial. I just don't get the break with reality. I mean, really? I don't get it.

I'm still shaking. I'm staying at a hotel for the week. I couldn't go back home. It's so surreal.

Why deny at this point?


Been there, OP. Sorry you had to see that. Even sorrier that your DH's reaction was to try to gaslight you to think you didn't see it. But, why the hell are you staying in a hotel? Go back to the house. Don't engage. Move your DH into a separate room or make him sleep on the sofa or move out. (Or maybe you want to move into a separate room if you can't stomach the thought of sleeping in the same bed where they've been having sex.)

I promise you, you are shaking now, but in a few years, when all of this is over, you will laugh at the sheer insanity of him.

My DH did a lot of crazy things. And, now with the perspective of the rearview mirror, I laugh and marvel sometimes at how completely ridiculous he is.

Hope you will see the humor in it some day.
[Post New]02/15/2015 12:43
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Anonymous
Check for a new brush on the nightstand. That's a dead giveaway.
[Post New]02/15/2015 13:59
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Anonymous
As awful as that would be to witness, I would love to think I could quietly back out, get a camera, and get some evidence.
Then change the locks when he's out of the house.
So sorry, OP.
[Post New]02/15/2015 14:12
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Anonymous
Where are you OP?
[Post New]02/15/2015 14:13
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Hmmm. I never understand this. I would have screamed, thrown shit...I can't comprehend just closing the door and backing out. I


Same here. It makes this post hard to believe it's true.
[Post New]02/15/2015 14:17
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:In THE ACT, in our bedroom. I opened the door, saw, closed the door and walked out. He called me to say i didn't see what i saw. I really don't get the denial. I just don't get the break with reality. I mean, really? I don't get it.

I'm still shaking. I'm staying at a hotel for the week. I couldn't go back home. It's so surreal.

Why deny at this point?


Been there, OP. Sorry you had to see that. Even sorrier that your DH's reaction was to try to gaslight you to think you didn't see it. But, why the hell are you staying in a hotel? Go back to the house. Don't engage. Move your DH into a separate room or make him sleep on the sofa or move out. (Or maybe you want to move into a separate room if you can't stomach the thought of sleeping in the same bed where they've been having sex.)

I promise you, you are shaking now, but in a few years, when all of this is over, you will laugh at the sheer insanity of him.

My DH did a lot of crazy things. And, now with the perspective of the rearview mirror, I laugh and marvel sometimes at how completely ridiculous he is.

Hope you will see the humor in it some day.


New poster here. That would be horrible for me. I can understand why she wanted to go to a hotel.
[Post New]02/15/2015 14:17
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Hmmm. I never understand this. I would have screamed, thrown shit...I can't comprehend just closing the door and backing out. I


Same here. It makes this post hard to believe it's true.


Shock.
[Post New]02/15/2015 14:18
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Anonymous
Did she take her kids with her to the hotel, or leave them behind with the cheater dad?
[Post New]02/15/2015 15:52
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Hmmm. I never understand this. I would have screamed, thrown shit...I can't comprehend just closing the door and backing out. I


Same here. It makes this post hard to believe it's true.


Right? If I did not successfully murder him and was not in jail, then I'd throw his whoring ass out of the house. No fucking way would I be the one in the hotel.

My neighbors SAHM wife was fucking her personal trainer at about 10am most week day mornings ( I WFH and would see him come in each day at that time). DH caught her and unceremoniously threw their mattress into the street. We all knew she had been busted.
[Post New]02/15/2015 16:58
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Anonymous
You know, it couldhave been a blow up doll.
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