I invited a guy to a concert

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here. I texted him yesterday morning . I heard from him last night. He told me to check out one of their albums. Don't know if he's being nice.

That strikes me as weird- if you are as into them as you say I would imagine you are familiar with their albums. Not like they are churning out new ones (are they?)
But your gut is correct. It just sounds like a polite non-committal comment. If he were interested he would ask you out again. I'd stop thinking about this if I were you.

[Anonymous]

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Yes, then thats your true personality and you need to find a guy who's okay with. I dumped my BF of about a year because he wasnt acting excited enough at a strokes concert. It wasnt so much about the concert, more about the fact that I realized I wanted a guy who was fun and exuberant and non self concious and didnt want to be stuck with a "debbie downer" at every fun event for the rest of my life.

Then don't bring/drag your BF to every fucking event you attend because you can't STAND the SHAME of going alone (or with a friend). I attend lots of concerts and don't bring GF because she simply isn't into live music like I am.

I dumped my BF of about a year because he wasnt acting excited enough at a strokes concert.

I can't blame him, the Strokes blow live. PS, fuck you.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My behavior was due to the fact I love this band and they were awesome.

Right. We all get that OP. Pps points still stand. Did you act like a 13 year old around One Direction? Were you drunk singing/dancing? Did you pay attention to him past saying "omg isn't this band awesome?!" Did you get annoyed whenever he was sitting down? Were you saying things like "come on dance! Why aren't you super into it?!" And things along those lines?

Air Supply concert. I did not pressure him to dance

Wow. Speechless that you'd admit to that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here. I texted him yesterday morning . I heard from him last night. He told me to check out one of their albums. Don't know if he's being nice.

What is the name of the album? Maybe he's trying to send a message to you that's hidden in the title or one of its songs?

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Anonymous wrote:My behavior was due to the fact I love this band and they were awesome.

Right. We all get that OP. Pps points still stand. Did you act like a 13 year old around One Direction? Were you drunk singing/dancing? Did you pay attention to him past saying "omg isn't this band awesome?!" Did you get annoyed whenever he was sitting down? Were you saying things like "come on dance! Why aren't you super into it?!" And things along those lines?

Air Supply concert. I did not pressure him to dance

Wow. Speechless that you'd admit to that.

Why

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My behavior was due to the fact I love this band and they were awesome.

Right. We all get that OP. Pps points still stand. Did you act like a 13 year old around One Direction? Were you drunk singing/dancing? Did you pay attention to him past saying "omg isn't this band awesome?!" Did you get annoyed whenever he was sitting down? Were you saying things like "come on dance! Why aren't you super into it?!" And things along those lines?

Air Supply concert. I did not pressure him to dance

Wow. Speechless that you'd admit to that.

Why

Because you should have pressured him to dance, op! seriously though- what kind of stuck in the mud refuses to dance at an air supply concert?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My behavior was due to the fact I love this band and they were awesome.

Right. We all get that OP. Pps points still stand. Did you act like a 13 year old around One Direction? Were you drunk singing/dancing? Did you pay attention to him past saying "omg isn't this band awesome?!" Did you get annoyed whenever he was sitting down? Were you saying things like "come on dance! Why aren't you super into it?!" And things along those lines?

Air Supply concert. I did not pressure him to dance

Wow. Speechless that you'd admit to that.

Why

Because you should have pressured him to dance, op! seriously though- what kind of stuck in the mud refuses to dance at an air supply concert?

I was so surprised how awesome this concert was. I've always liked them but did not expect to get down at their concert

[Anonymous]

Look, you can't make love out of nothing at all. You need to find a guy who thinks your every woman in the world to him and wants to get lost in love with you.

[Anonymous]

Op, it doesn't sound like you did anything wrong or weird, unless you used illegal drugs at the concert.

I wouldn't worry about it. You were yourself. If for some reason he isn't into you, oh well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op, it doesn't sound like you did anything wrong or weird, unless you used illegal drugs at the concert.

I wouldn't worry about it. You were yourself. If for some reason he isn't into you, oh well.

Ha! The idea of OP popping a Molly at the concert and going nuts and then wondering why her date wasn't interested is just hilarious to me.

But yes, you are totally right. If you are just being yourself and a dude doesnt like it, then he is not the man for you.

[Anonymous]

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Yes, then thats your true personality and you need to find a guy who's okay with. I dumped my BF of about a year because he wasnt acting excited enough at a strokes concert. It wasnt so much about the concert, more about the fact that I realized I wanted a guy who was fun and exuberant and non self concious and didnt want to be stuck with a "debbie downer" at every fun event for the rest of my life.

Then don't bring/drag your BF to every fucking event you attend because you can't STAND the SHAME of going alone (or with a friend). I attend lots of concerts and don't bring GF because she simply isn't into live music like I am.

I dumped my BF of about a year because he wasnt acting excited enough at a strokes concert.

I can't blame him, the Strokes blow live. PS, fuck you.

Heh. NP. Not sure about the 'fuck you' part, but The Strokes are not really a band you geek out to. It's more or less appropriate to act detached and unimpressed at a Strokes show. And hey, maybe the guy was just shy!

[Anonymous]

Air Supply = wuss rock

[Anonymous]

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Yes, then thats your true personality and you need to find a guy who's okay with. I dumped my BF of about a year because he wasnt acting excited enough at a strokes concert. It wasnt so much about the concert, more about the fact that I realized I wanted a guy who was fun and exuberant and non self concious and didnt want to be stuck with a "debbie downer" at every fun event for the rest of my life.

Then don't bring/drag your BF to every fucking event you attend because you can't STAND the SHAME of going alone (or with a friend). I attend lots of concerts and don't bring GF because she simply isn't into live music like I am.

I dumped my BF of about a year because he wasnt acting excited enough at a strokes concert.

I can't blame him, the Strokes blow live. PS, fuck you.

Heh. NP. Not sure about the 'fuck you' part, but The Strokes are not really a band you geek out to. It's more or less appropriate to act detached and unimpressed at a Strokes show. And hey, maybe the guy was just shy!

Well I was about 16 and had been obsessed with them since I was about 11, when they first came out, which he knew, which was why he bought me the tickets. And I wasn't "geeking out"- more like standing up and dancing to the music (which was what everyone was doing), and he was sitting and refusing to go along with any of it. I guess you could say we were a "cool" couple but at that point I realized I wanted someone not always concerned with being "cool" who would geek out with me once in a while.

I have met the Strokes on a couple of occasions so i'm not worried about acting cool in front of them i'm cool with all the members, and their tour manager!

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Yes, then thats your true personality and you need to find a guy who's okay with. I dumped my BF of about a year because he wasnt acting excited enough at a strokes concert. It wasnt so much about the concert, more about the fact that I realized I wanted a guy who was fun and exuberant and non self concious and didnt want to be stuck with a "debbie downer" at every fun event for the rest of my life.

Then don't bring/drag your BF to every fucking event you attend because you can't STAND the SHAME of going alone (or with a friend). I attend lots of concerts and don't bring GF because she simply isn't into live music like I am.

I dumped my BF of about a year because he wasnt acting excited enough at a strokes concert.

I can't blame him, the Strokes blow live. PS, fuck you.

Uhhh what are you talking about? You do realize they play garage rock... right? You're really surprised when it doesnt sound pristine?

Girl, bye.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Look, you can't make love out of nothing at all. You need to find a guy who thinks your every woman in the world to him and wants to get lost in love with you.

I love you.

- NP