What do you wear to bed? Does it have an effect on your sex life?

[Anonymous]

Ugh! I hate that what I wear affects whether I have sex or not. Maybe I want to wear something sexy and not have sex. Maybe it is cold so I wear flannel and I do want to have sex.

It seems like one big f'd up game.

[Anonymous]

Nursing top and a toddler. Not a lot of sex happening in the family bed.

[Anonymous]

The people that sleep naked surely must not have kids? What temperature is your thermostat set to? I sleep with a TMJ mouthguard.

[Anonymous]

I prefer to sleep naked or with just some panties. If I'm on my period I wear yoga pants. My boyfriend however wears underwear and shorts and a shirt. He takes them off when we want to have sex but it's annoying. He always puts them back on afterwards. I sometimes have to ask him to take off his shirt during sex so I can feel his wonderful muscles.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The people that sleep naked surely must not have kids? What temperature is your thermostat set to? I sleep with a TMJ mouthguard.

8:09 PP here. we have 3 kids (13, 10, 7). Unless she's on her period, we sleep naked and keep the temp at night at 67.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The people that sleep naked surely must not have kids? What temperature is your thermostat set to? I sleep with a TMJ mouthguard.

I have one child (toddler); I keep a pair of yoga pants and a top next to the bed for when I need to get up. Thermostat is set ridiculously high (75). Toddler's room gets very cold, but that's just a convenient excuse for me; I am very cold intollerant. I sleep under 2-3 heavy blankets in the winter.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Question for the naked sleepers: when did you start sleeping naked? How and when did you make the transition (assuming you didn't sleep naked as kids)?

I slept topless as a teen. First when I was sick, then all the time. Lost the panties around 10 or 11th grade. Then stopped in college, then started up as soon as I mo longer had a roommate.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The people that sleep naked surely must not have kids? What temperature is your thermostat set to? I sleep with a TMJ mouthguard.

We have two kids. One and three. Temp is at 67 at night.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The people that sleep naked surely must not have kids? What temperature is your thermostat set to? I sleep with a TMJ mouthguard.

Have a 2 year old. Have yoga pants and a t shirt next to my bed but on the off chance he wakes up during the night, I just go in there naked to rub his back or whatever. Temp is set at 65

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ugh! I hate that what I wear affects whether I have sex or not. Maybe I want to wear something sexy and not have sex. Maybe it is cold so I wear flannel and I do want to have sex.

It seems like one big f'd up game.

It only affects your sex life if you've trained your husband to know that depending on what you wear to bed means you're in the mood. I.e rarely have sex when you sleep in t shirt, he's Going to associate the t shirt with you not being in the mood. Almost always have sex when you come to bed in flannel pjs, he's going to see the flannel and think "yay! I'm going to have sex tonight!" Have no set pattern then you're in the same boat as pps who sleep naked. Some nights you'll have sex, some you won't.

Just because for some pps attire may mean sex, doesn't mean it has to for you.

[Anonymous]

I sleep in flannel armor with knee socks. I'm too damn tired for anything but sleep.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The people that sleep naked surely must not have kids? What temperature is your thermostat set to? I sleep with a TMJ mouthguard.

I have a down comforter so if I wore clothes, I'd sweat to death.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ugh! I hate that what I wear affects whether I have sex or not. Maybe I want to wear something sexy and not have sex. Maybe it is cold so I wear flannel and I do want to have sex.

It seems like one big f'd up game.

It only affects your sex life if you've trained your husband to know that depending on what you wear to bed means you're in the mood. I.e rarely have sex when you sleep in t shirt, he's Going to associate the t shirt with you not being in the mood. Almost always have sex when you come to bed in flannel pjs, he's going to see the flannel and think "yay! I'm going to have sex tonight!" Have no set pattern then you're in the same boat as pps who sleep naked. Some nights you'll have sex, some you won't.

Just because for some pps attire may mean sex, doesn't mean it has to for you.

Not really. Men don't have to be trained, it's innate.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ugh! I hate that what I wear affects whether I have sex or not. Maybe I want to wear something sexy and not have sex. Maybe it is cold so I wear flannel and I do want to have sex.

It seems like one big f'd up game.

Are you weak? Weird post. You have sex when you want to, right?

[Anonymous]

Naked in the summer, pj's in the winter. single mom, not dating.