Those who doesn't hate their MIL, any thoughts on this?

[Anonymous]

OP, did these things bug you? If so, speak up.

Personally, I believe MIL is overstepping her boundaries, even if you didn't set any. It's your kid, not hers, so you should be the one to decide if she needs her coat or not. The sock thing isn't a big deal; I would assume MIL thought she was being proactive by putting on socks, but made a poor decision to get dirty ones and not ask you where DD's socks were.

Also, whose idea was it to let her come over every week? I like my MIL and she wouldn't step over boundaries like these, but even once a month would be too much ILs for me.

I would guess that the frequency of MIL's visits has something to do with her pretending to be the mom.

[Anonymous]

I think I've seen this posted here before. The MIL hand feeding the toddler. The mom letting it happen without saying anything. Is this the same poster?