How do you avoid becoming "Friends" with the opposite sex

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I'm not attracted to EVERY member of the opposite sex. It's just sometimes I flirt to a point that may be close to the line.

And you're married, right? Then maybe you ought to consider some therapy to help you better understand why you do this, and why you want to blame "evolutionary urges." If your post is real, which I suspect it's not.

It's real. It probably stems from low self esteem as a teenager. Rejected a lot in junior and high school. Now I'm attractive but I still need validation.

Okay, then I'd work on that in therapy.

[Anonymous]

I would definitely look into therapy to talk about this. This may stem from low self esteem or you may be close to sabatoging your marriage. Talk to someone. Good luck.