Ex grabbed my ass. How to handle?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Just be flattered stop being so uptight .

WTF is wrong with you?

Probably a lot !! Some of the advice given here is a joke. Telling her to talk to him and telling him she will press charges is a good way to get yourself killed. If someone and I mean anyone said that to me it would be the last words they ever spoke. I don't deal with threats well.

You're cute.

People like you get themselves shot.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Kick him in the balls.

What's he wearing? LOL!!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Just be flattered stop being so uptight .

WTF is wrong with you?

Probably a lot !! Some of the advice given here is a joke. Telling her to talk to him and telling him she will press charges is a good way to get yourself killed. If someone and I mean anyone said that to me it would be the last words they ever spoke. I don't deal with threats well.

Please seek psychiatric assistance, preferably in-patient.

[Anonymous]

OP, this happens to me a lot. Ex gets especially threatened when he thinks I have a man in my life. It's the worst. He does think he still possesses me and will always have the right to my body.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Kick him in the balls.

What's he wearing? LOL!!!

Wouldn't I be opening myself up to assault charges if I did that? I'd rather my child not see me getting violent.

The threat of police is probably a good next step. I'm sure my 6' 6" brother would speak to him, but I feel like I outgrew that option years ago.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Just be flattered stop being so uptight .

WTF is wrong with you?

Probably a lot !! Some of the advice given here is a joke. Telling her to talk to him and telling him she will press charges is a good way to get yourself killed. If someone and I mean anyone said that to me it would be the last words they ever spoke. I don't deal with threats well.

You're cute.

People like you get themselves shot.

I have been shot but it was just a random school shooting . He wasn't aiming at me.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Thanks Trolly.

Love how people get called trolls when they have different view points. I'm sure everyone sitting in prison is a troll too. They would never hurt anyone no they are all innocent . Just trolls making up stuff not life long criminals.

Not everyone is worth engaging with.

Original "Wtf" poster here. Clearly that was a mistake. Apologies to OP for being part of her thread going off the rails.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, this happens to me a lot. Ex gets especially threatened when he thinks I have a man in my life. It's the worst. He does think he still possesses me and will always have the right to my body.

OP here. What do you do about it?

[Anonymous]

only 6 more years of coparenting means that you get to greatly reduce how much face to face time you spend together. you don't even have to get out of the car to exchange a 12 year old!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Build a time machine, go back and tell your younger self not to mistake "asshole" for "confidence."

Not OP, but sure wish I could do this. I'd also tell myself not to mistake obsessiveness for attentiveness.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:only 6 more years of coparenting means that you get to greatly reduce how much face to face time you spend together. you don't even have to get out of the car to exchange a 12 year old!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Kick him in the balls.

Ouch.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, this happens to me a lot. Ex gets especially threatened when he thinks I have a man in my life. It's the worst. He does think he still possesses me and will always have the right to my body.

OP here. What do you do about it?

Well I push him away angrily and pretty much growl at him. Or I get loud and yell at him to stop. But I don't want my daughter to see this as my only interaction with men. She started rejecting him a lot when she did that. He slowed down now but still calls me a hot piece of ass. SO RUDE.

I mostly just avoid even hugging him. Which I just realized is an excuse to cop a feel.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, this happens to me a lot. Ex gets especially threatened when he thinks I have a man in my life. It's the worst. He does think he still possesses me and will always have the right to my body.

OP here. What do you do about it?

Well I push him away angrily and pretty much growl at him. Or I get loud and yell at him to stop. But I don't want my daughter to see this as my only interaction with men. She started rejecting him a lot when she did that. He slowed down now but still calls me a hot piece of ass. SO RUDE.

I mostly just avoid even hugging him. Which I just realized is an excuse to cop a feel.

Have you ever considered pressing charges for this behavior? Is your ex someone who thinks he's entitled to act like that?

[Anonymous]

Why are you out and about without your man. Are you a stripper? Where else can random men grab yo ass.