Best flight safety option for 3 and 5 year old.

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Anonymous wrote:What is your concern - that they will squirm about or that if there was a plane crash they would be safer in a carseat?

If the former - they are both old enough to sit still well. They will be fine with some toys and looking out the window etc. Honestly, don't worry about it.

If the latter - a car seat will not help if your plane has a crash. Just make sure they understand they need to keep their seatbelts fastened.

Please, this is exactly what I said I didn't need to hear. Obviously, not worried about squirming or if the plane crashes. Planning in the event of serious turbulence. Rare, but happens. You can keep your opinions to yourself. I'm just asking for advice on WHAT to use, not whether to use anything at all.

Jesus, rude lady. You didn't say that on the OP.

Enjoy the rest of your day. I hope the rest of the world keeps out of your way- it's clear you have your claws out!

Nothing rude about what I said. And I very clearly did say that in the OP. You just wanted to chime in with your opinion. And now you're upset that I said it wasn't welcome. My day is great, thanks.

New poster here, and yes OP--you were rude with your "You can keep your opinions to yourself." Good Luck to all the other passengers on your flight.

Fine, but I think she was being rude with her response especially given that I had asked, respectfully, not to get derailed by people who think nothing is needed.

For your 5 year old, even you agree nothing is needed.

Go, buy the harness. But unless your kid is generally a fiddly kid or incredibly tiny, you are wasting your money. In turbulence the goal is simply to stay attached to the seat. Which is what a seatbelt does. The harness just makes it harder for toddlers to get free of the seatbelt.

your opinion on that is based on nothing other than your supposition. The FAA website says to do the harness. Because it's easy for a littler kid to slip out of the seatbelt -- can't really make it tight enough for them. I can't believe people will pick a fight about something even as uncontroversial as this. I even said I respect people who don't want to use anything other than the seatbelt. No judgment about that, because it is pretty rare for severe turbulence to happen. Just wanted advice for what to use for those of us who do want to use something. Gosh sakes. I'm out. Thanks to all the helpful PPs.

...then you could have just looked at the FAA website, then couldn't you.

Yes, and I did. But I didn't know if there was something else as a better alternative that the FAA site might not have mentioned. Or whether people liked those harness things or not. I haven't done it before. Is that okay with you? Geez.

NP here. OP, you are obnoxious.

I've flown with my two multiple times with my two children (2 and 5) since they were born, even internationally, and I opened this thread to give you advice, but you are SO incredibly rude that there's no way I'm helping you.

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Also, please stop calling them "harness things." You sound like a teenager.

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Nothing for 5-myear old, CARES harness for 3-year old, if you are so inclined.

OP- by the way, you're being a complete bitch.

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Anonymous wrote:Nothing for 5-myear old, CARES harness for 3-year old, if you are so inclined.

OP- by the way, you're being a complete bitch.

Not as much of one as you -- at least I wasn't name calling. Peace out. I find it amazing that you think I'm rude for telling someone who wished my children a fiery death that they're horrible. Whatever. YOu have no credibility. I truly don't care what dysfunctional people who go on the internet to try to verbally abuse other people think. I came for advice for pracitical matters, and met crazy. Don't worry, I won't bother again.

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Anonymous wrote:Also, please stop calling them "harness things." You sound like a teenager.

I really don't care what you want me to call them. I'll call them Twinkies if I want. Get a life.

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Anonymous wrote:What is your concern - that they will squirm about or that if there was a plane crash they would be safer in a carseat?

If the former - they are both old enough to sit still well. They will be fine with some toys and looking out the window etc. Honestly, don't worry about it.

If the latter - a car seat will not help if your plane has a crash. Just make sure they understand they need to keep their seatbelts fastened.

Please, this is exactly what I said I didn't need to hear. Obviously, not worried about squirming or if the plane crashes. Planning in the event of serious turbulence. Rare, but happens. You can keep your opinions to yourself. I'm just asking for advice on WHAT to use, not whether to use anything at all.

Jesus, rude lady. You didn't say that on the OP.

Enjoy the rest of your day. I hope the rest of the world keeps out of your way- it's clear you have your claws out!

Nothing rude about what I said. And I very clearly did say that in the OP. You just wanted to chime in with your opinion. And now you're upset that I said it wasn't welcome. My day is great, thanks.

New poster here, and yes OP--you were rude with your "You can keep your opinions to yourself." Good Luck to all the other passengers on your flight.

Fine, but I think she was being rude with her response especially given that I had asked, respectfully, not to get derailed by people who think nothing is needed.

For your 5 year old, even you agree nothing is needed.

Go, buy the harness. But unless your kid is generally a fiddly kid or incredibly tiny, you are wasting your money. In turbulence the goal is simply to stay attached to the seat. Which is what a seatbelt does. The harness just makes it harder for toddlers to get free of the seatbelt.

your opinion on that is based on nothing other than your supposition. The FAA website says to do the harness. Because it's easy for a littler kid to slip out of the seatbelt -- can't really make it tight enough for them. I can't believe people will pick a fight about something even as uncontroversial as this. I even said I respect people who don't want to use anything other than the seatbelt. No judgment about that, because it is pretty rare for severe turbulence to happen. Just wanted advice for what to use for those of us who do want to use something. Gosh sakes. I'm out. Thanks to all the helpful PPs.

...then you could have just looked at the FAA website, then couldn't you.

Yes, and I did. But I didn't know if there was something else as a better alternative that the FAA site might not have mentioned. Or whether people liked those harness things or not. I haven't done it before. Is that okay with you? Geez.

NP here. OP, you are obnoxious.

I've flown with my two multiple times with my two children (2 and 5) since they were born, even internationally, and I opened this thread to give you advice, but you are SO incredibly rude that there's no way I'm helping you.

Oh, how sad. I guess I'll have to struggle on without your insight. Somehow I'll manage.
OMG, all this taught me is that DCUM is a repository for people with a lot of problems. So over it.

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Anonymous wrote:Nothing for 5-myear old, CARES harness for 3-year old, if you are so inclined.

OP- by the way, you're being a complete bitch.

Not as much of one as you -- at least I wasn't name calling. Peace out. I find it amazing that you think I'm rude for telling someone who wished my children a fiery death that they're horrible. Whatever. YOu have no credibility. I truly don't care what dysfunctional people who go on the internet to try to verbally abuse other people think. I came for advice for pracitical matters, and met crazy. Don't worry, I won't bother again.

Not PP but you really are a bitch, OP.

I hope no ones gives you any more advice.

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Anonymous wrote:Nothing for 5-myear old, CARES harness for 3-year old, if you are so inclined.

OP- by the way, you're being a complete bitch.

Not as much of one as you -- at least I wasn't name calling. Peace out. I find it amazing that you think I'm rude for telling someone who wished my children a fiery death that they're horrible. Whatever. YOu have no credibility. I truly don't care what dysfunctional people who go on the internet to try to verbally abuse other people think. I came for advice for pracitical matters, and met crazy. Don't worry, I won't bother again.

Are you this high strung in real life? You must drive your husband insane.

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You are a psychotic--if you cared about your kids' safety, that's the first thing you should be concerned with taking care of.

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OP, let it go.