Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I don't know but I will say this: every guy who's approached me for an affair shuts down when it gets to logistics. Every single guy says, "My wife controls all the money, so I can't pay for dinner/drinks/gifts/hotel room." Assuming I would start an affair, I'm sure not going to have one with a guy who expects me to pick up the tab, or sleep with him at his house!!! How clueless are these guys, really?
The guy who approached me said we could get a hotel/motel. whatever works... i was like motel?! um no thanks. [/quote
The thing is that it is not an affair. These guys want sex but are too cheap to go to a sex-worker. Plus, they usually have not been able to seduce you with their conversation or intellect or empathy.
Wait! Maybe it is the same guy, we all have come across and now we are generalizing?