Anonymous wrote:... The biggest difference I've observed is how socially adept the graduates are. To me, graduates of all boys schools are far more polished than graduates of coed schools - but reasonable minds can differ.
As a graduate of an all-boys school, with many good friends whose sons are at all-boys schools, I have to disagree. I agree with you that grads from all-boys school are usually able to throw up a veneer of social polish and gentlemanly behavior at will, because the schools invariably are strict about requiring that veneer on command. But in my experience, many students from all-boys schools often struggle to adjust to the wider co-ed society. It can take a couple years of co-ed college to force them to re-calibrate. Some never successfully adjust. I say all that as someone who has a lot of respect for the positives of all-boys schools and some positive values they can develop. But in my experience, the negative values they harbor can often outweigh the positives. A lot depends on the particular boy. Many all-boys grads are great; but some always seem to grow wrong.
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