We have twins and I have to say that for us right about 15 months things got a lot better. I do not know why exactly, but myself and my dh both agree that that was when the cloud lifted and life returned to normal for the most part. We have two singletons either side of the twins, so have experienced the lot and multiples really take a toll on a family. Also I sometimes feel it is easier when only one parent is on duty -- when we were both home, it would always get so bitchy. Maybe swap on and off a little over the weekend, so you can have some alone time. Would that be possible? Good luck, hang in there. |