What should I do????
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Anonymous
So what are you going to do? |
Anonymous
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Continue my life as it was before I met him (boring and k
Lonely) and toss him in the trash he's been giving me a headache all day today and I'm just too through. |
Anonymous
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I say go for it.
You say he has asked you to move in with him? Considering he is hiding out in his moms house, moving in with him sounds like a really fun adventure. You probably won't get many chances to live secretly in someone else's house so take the chance while you can! Also the family fighting will give you lots to talk about and definitely keep you from being bored. Given you work three jobs and are still bored without him, you could use this extra drama and excitement in your life to spice it up. |
Anonymous
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OP - you don't live in the DC area, do you? If you do, I just don't understand how "everyone you know is married with kids." We had kids in our early 30's and we are young compared to most parents in this area.
In the town where I grew up however, 23 was getting to be over the hill. All of my high school friends got married right after college (many to their high school sweethearts) and I do remember feeling like I was going to be alone forever. Didn't help that my mom asked me constantly if I met someone. I met my DH at the ripe old age of 27. He joked that we would have never gotten together if we met earlier as he was immature in his early 20's. |
Anonymous
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I feel like if you moved in with him you'd wake up after your first night there in a bathtub of ice with your kidney missing.
On another note, I'm a single 24 year old. Anyone know of any felons I could date? God forbid I make it to 26 w/o having popped out a baby!! |
Anonymous
I don't know, honey, you're really over the hill already. LOL 
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Anonymous
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OP,
Sorry you're getting such hate from some of these old bitter hags. My advice to you is look into schooling. Not sure if it's affordable since you work 3 jobs, but perhaps explore that avenue and work on getting a degree. Perhaps your local community college? Even an associate's will get you respectable employment (dental hygienist, nursing assistant, etc). Work on getting a good education and obtaining a job that will negate the need to work 3 of them. I'd say "NO" to dating or having any involvement with this guy. Once you start school, a new world of eligible guys will open up (career-minded, education-seeking, etc). |
Anonymous
| I'm also in school for Pediatric nursing....And yes I'm from this area born and raised and its true everyone has children, married or close to it. |
Anonymous
| Yikes...if you want to be a nurse you seriously need to work on your ability to judge |
Anonymous
| Interesting...one of the things they teach you in nursing school is how to trust your gut. If I recall correctly, it was in nursing 100. You have a lot of maturing to do before you can become a nurse. The fact that you were even considering this guy shows an extreme lack in judgement and indicates a pretty major character flaw. |
Anonymous
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Damn, some of you women need to STFU. What ever happened to being supportive?
This is a young woman seeking guidance and rather than support, you find delight in tearing her down. She sounds like a hardworking woman who is trying to better her life and I say good for her. OP, keep up the good work. PLEASE do not saddle yourself with a guy who may bring drama or, even worse, get you pregnant and then you'll have to deal with also being a single Mom. Focus on schooling. Give yourself this time to be single and be PICKY. You are young and have no need to settle. There's nothing wrong with dating casually, but make sure to pick guys who are good long-term potential partners because you never know when/if emotions will become involved. Good luck to you. |
Anonymous
Bullshit. No Effing Way. I'm sorry but you come off as VERY UNEDUCATED. Your spelling is horrendous, you can't put together proper sentences and the fact that you are even considering dating this guy? Ugh, no. |
Anonymous
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OP, years ago I could have written a post like yours. I had very little dating experience and surprisingly low self-esteem. My first serious boyfriend (I was 27, so older than you and probably should have known better!) was so much like the guy you described- criminal record (that kept him from having a license), a volatile relationship with his family, admits to lying to family and taking advantage of them, and many other red flags. I will never again be with someone who is disrespectful to his family, it should have been obvious that if he can do that to his mother imagine what he is capable of doing to you...
I said my self-esteem was surprisingly low, because I didn't realize at the time that being with him caused it to sink to all time low for me. You are very young and have lots of time to find the right guy for you, don't ever settle for anything less because you will regret it. This man is a user, seriously just take care of yourself, better yourself and the man that deserves you, and will appreciate you will come along. |
Anonymous
| I think using excess punctuation is the answer to all your problems. Keep it up!!!!! |
Anonymous
www.felonsconnect.com you're welcome. Good luck! |