Married men - have you really had the opportunity to cheat?

[Anonymous]

What do you look like?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I've had a lot of depressing opportunities to cheat. I say it like that because things like this never happened to me when I was single. It's like they waited until I was married just to mess with me.

I've been propositioned by friends, coworkers and managers. One coworker told me that she was in love with me and thought she picked up on similar feelings from me. When I turned her down she asked me to give her a chance to change my mind after work.

A life long friend that is also married asked if I wanted to have a one time thing because she couldn't get over her husband's affair.

I met a lady in the gym who knew I was married because she'd met my wife there a week earlier. As I was leaving she walked up to me and asked if I'd like to go out for drinks before I went home to my wife.

And finally (but not my only example) I went out to a networking event a few months ago and met a woman who works with my wife but says she only knows her in passing. After a few drinks she asked me if I wanted to sneak out and maybe finish this up at her place.

I turned down every situation, but I swear to God that I think about them every time my wife isn't in the mood. It's amazing what fantasy tells you that you'd do vs reality.

These women are losers. The common thread is that they all KNOW you are married. They are settling for low hanging fruit. Not because you are a loser or anything, but any married guy who cheats is probably not in a great place in life. Someone telling you they are in love with you, before even dating you, suffers from a staggering amount of low self worth. At least the lady at the gym was going for drinks, the loser at the networking event was blatantly just wanting sex which seems really desperate, at least get a nice dinner for god's sake, and the woman whose husband had an affair wasn't even trying to hide her desperation. Jesus Lord this is a staggering amount of patheticness.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I've had a lot of depressing opportunities to cheat. I say it like that because things like this never happened to me when I was single. It's like they waited until I was married just to mess with me.

I've been propositioned by friends, coworkers and managers. One coworker told me that she was in love with me and thought she picked up on similar feelings from me. When I turned her down she asked me to give her a chance to change my mind after work.

A life long friend that is also married asked if I wanted to have a one time thing because she couldn't get over her husband's affair.

I met a lady in the gym who knew I was married because she'd met my wife there a week earlier. As I was leaving she walked up to me and asked if I'd like to go out for drinks before I went home to my wife.

And finally (but not my only example) I went out to a networking event a few months ago and met a woman who works with my wife but says she only knows her in passing. After a few drinks she asked me if I wanted to sneak out and maybe finish this up at her place.

I turned down every situation, but I swear to God that I think about them every time my wife isn't in the mood. It's amazing what fantasy tells you that you'd do vs reality.

These women are losers. The common thread is that they all KNOW you are married. They are settling for low hanging fruit. Not because you are a loser or anything, but any married guy who cheats is probably not in a great place in life. Someone telling you they are in love with you, before even dating you, suffers from a staggering amount of low self worth. At least the lady at the gym was going for drinks, the loser at the networking event was blatantly just wanting sex which seems really desperate, at least get a nice dinner for god's sake, and the woman whose husband had an affair wasn't even trying to hide her desperation. Jesus Lord this is a staggering amount of patheticness.

completely agree with this response. These are unbelievably pathetic women.

[Anonymous]

All of those women post on this site, and they are very proud of their behavior.