From a Brand New Mom to Expectant Moms. . .

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, you do feel "euphoric" the first few weeks until the lack of sleep, screaming, not eating enough and other inconveniences catch up with you. However, I know of a few people with chill babies who haven't had many problems, so yes, it's possible to "get away" without nearly killing yourself during the first 6 months. Just be prepared for the worst. It's always better to be pleasantly surprised.

Very doom and gloom. I am five weeks in, and am no where near "nearly killing myself."

[Anonymous]

You are very lucky. The reality is that most women do feel overwhelmed in the beginning.

[Anonymous]

The situations are different based on your recovery, how many children you already have, the personality of your baby, the personality of the mother, how much help you get, how much help you can afford and a gazillion other factors. How difficult or easy having a baby will always depend on these things...but in general, having a baby doesn't tend to be "easy".