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Sounds like a gamble. |
What I meant is that they do offer hypotheses about the causes for the correlation between quantity and quality because, as I said above, they don't know for sure if there is an intrinsic link. Both quantity and quality, of course, are correlated with age, but it would be interesting to know to what extent there is a direct correlation between the two factors, because someone who is 37 but has a low response to the stims might have better egg quality than someone who is 40 and still produces more eggs. For now, it still looks like more eggs just give you better chances because you have a greater number of embryos to select from, not because you necessarily have better egg quality. Conversely, you could have few embryos, but they could be good quality. I brought this up because I thought it would be encouraging to OP, but she doesn't seem interested in this discussion. |
+1. I'd do a day 3 transfer, unless you REALLY want to avoid multiples and are hoping to transfer just one and freeze the others. But there is no doubt that the uterus is the most conducive environment for embryo growth. |
I understand what you are saying, but at the end of the day, the fact remains that more eggs, on average and within some substantial range, lead to a greater probability of pregnancy. May that be only because there is a greater chance of finding a good embryo, but it still matters. I think most of us going through IVF are hoping that, of course that cycles are not cancelled, there are no complications etc, but also, while knowing that that does not guarantee anything, to have 10-15 eggs. Few of us (or our REs) would, I think, would choose to have 3 or even 5-6 eggs. Obviously, I hope the cycle works for OP as well as for all of us here in any current or future cycles. Like you (I think that was you!) I much prefer the intellectual engagement of this forum to the average fertility forum. |
PP here again. Actually, the page you linked doesn't show such data for all age groups. They compare a 28 year old to a 42 year old, which is a very stark comparison. All they show is that there is a correlation between quantity and quality because both are also overall correlated with age. They still cannot explain why (or test for if) someone with a low response, in some cases, might have a higher percentage of good eggs than someone who produces more. Still, of course, someone who produces more eggs but has a lower percentage of good ones might still have a greater absolute number of good eggs than someone who produces a a low number but has a higher percentage of good ones, but this is not necessarily the case if the parameters aren't as far apart as between the 28 and the 42 year old. Bottom line is, though, that the odds for good eggs are higher when you produce more of them - yet you shouldn't assume your eggs are bad just because your number is low. |
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18:02 - I cross posted with your last post. I agree with you on what you said - everybody, of course would rather have 10-15 eggs, but I'm trying to convey that under ten eggs can still mean success, especially if the woman is younger.
I like to contemplate this issue because my RE thought there would only be a very small chance for me to get pregnant with twins, as I was 39, and diagnosed with DOR, so we'd have a low number of eggs, most of which (guessing based on my age) would be of lower quality. Yet even though I produced only 7 mature eggs (on very high doses of stims), I am now almost in the third trimester with twins (I was hoping for twins, so that was good news for me). What this anecdotal experience shows is that while they can predict your ovarian response, they cannot necessarily predict your egg quality. |
Hi PP, I remember your case probably because I am also 39 and, if not daring to hope certainly would not mind twins (I am one of the pro-twin posters from recent threads). Are you the one whose RE said about 7 out of 10 eggs at our age are compromised? |
I'm not sure if OP is still reading, but please don't post your personal opinions here and provide baseless criticism of treatment options a poster has worked out with their RE. You don't know OP's situation (i.e. age, egg quality, history), so you don't know the basis upon which her RE is suggesting a day 5 transfer when she has 3 embryos on day 2. [Aside: I had two embryos that were dividing well on day 2, and waited until day 5 to transfer...both made it, transferred 1/froze 1.] If she is young and the embryos are dividing well, then it might make sense to wait even if she's planning to transfer two. It's not a gamble to follow your doctor's advice. If you think it is, you should find a different doctor. I'm not saying you shouldn't ask questions and make sure your RE understands your preferences and range of acceptable outcomes, but different clinics (and REs) have different protocols and approaches. That's part of why you might choose one clinic or RE over another. If you have explained your comfort level with various outcomes to your RE and you understand (and agree with) the basis for your RE's recommendation, then it is perfectly sensible to follow it. If we simply assume that RE's are robots following protocols mindlessly, why do we pay them so much money? They do have expertise that you can't glean from extensive web research...it doesn't help to make people on this forum question whether they should follow their doctor's recommendations. |
I don't think they are robots, but I don't think that pay that much attention to individual cases either. And even if we accept you premise that "following your doctor's advice is not a gamble", finding a doctor is a gamble. So, by implication, sometimes what your doctor tells you is a gamble (as another, equally experienced doctor, would tell you the opposite). It's easy to say "find a different doctor", but realistically one can't interview more than a few doctors, and even then, one can't judge what they are truly like until one is in the midst of a treatment. |
Even if everything you say is true, it's not helpful to tell someone that the treatment option they are pursuing is a "gamble" without any rationale...or just saying that something doesn't make sense except for in one specific case (especially if that's not even true). There are many reasons to pursue one option over another. And there are many reasons to wait until day 5. Unless you can offer reasoned critique of what a person is doing (and I don't think either of the PP's did that), telling someone they are making the wrong decision does not help anyone. And FWIW, I do think some RE's pay a fair amount of attention to individual cases. They might not always have the best stats, but part of that is the fact that they do modify their recommendations based on what their patients want and are willing to take on harder cases. It's true that you can't know everything about your doctor beforehand, but you can assess whether they would be willing to help you get what you want out of their treatment or what they think you should want. There is also a lot of information on forums like this that gives you some insight into what a doctor is like and his/her philosophy before you make an appointment. It's true doctors make different recommendations, but in most cases it's far less arbitrary than a random post on a forum coming from someone who knows no details about any specific case. [I understand that obviuosly no one is obligated to follow a random post on the internet, but when emotions are high and everything is uncertain, it's hurtful to have someone tell you you're taking a gamble with your treatment.] |
I think the rationale here is pretty obvious - namely that OP has very little cushion to work with and two long days to go. One of the PPs specifically mentioned minimizing the risk of multiples as a reason to go to 5 days transfer. Maybe the gambling comment was not very tactful, but you know what, we are not here only to serve OPs needs... There are several other people who follow the discussion and at least one of them found that comment worthwhile (so to speak). |
| Just my experience. I was 39, 4 eggs fertilized. I did a 5 day transfer of 2 blasts. I got pregnant with twins, but lost one at 10 weeks and ended up with a beautiful baby boy. The other 2 eggs also made it to day 6 blast. |
Yes, that was me. Good luck with your treatment! |
You are right that we don't know her whole situation (most importantly how old she is), but my comment was not based on web research. It was based on what my RE told me when I was in the same situation in terms of number of embryos, and the rationale I was given for making the decision. The purpose of making the comment was to make her aware that there may be an issue, given that she might still be able to question her RE on it. |