Not really. We control whether we have sex and whether we use contraception. Under the "God knew you before you were conceived" rationale, any hot christian woman is obliged to have sex with me on the theory that only God knows whether we would conceive a child if we had sex and it would be like killing that child if we didn't have sex. |
Actually I find it quite bothersome that there are "discarded embyros". But that is how I feel. I totally understand and accept that there are other viewpoints. |
I believe that a fetus is a human being from after the first trimester. I however embraced the life growing within in me from the beginnings of each of my pregnancies. I am sure a first trimester miscarriage would have devastated me.
I am pro-choice. |
Pro Choice.
But I believe that life begins at conception. I like the comparison I read several years ago. If your child were dying of kidney disease and the only way to save him was to donate your kidney, you should have a choice. It's your body. No one has the right to force you to have major surgery and lose a vital organ. However, I think most parents would chose to risk possible ill effects or even death to save a child. To me abortion is the same thing. Life begins at conception. But the government doesn't have the right to force women to carry a baby to term. |
I completely agree with your sentiments. My miscarriage was relatively early and I was devastated. |
So if a mother in on the fence and finally decides she wants the baby when the fetus is 7 mos, does that mean you think it isn't viable until 7 mos in utero? |
But a fetus isn't an organ, like a kidney. |
+1 |
ah, the govt can force a mom to care for and feed a 1 week old baby - that is more work and more intrusive than carrying a fetus around. I think it becomes a human sometime around 2-3 months. |
There are two independent issues specified here. One is viability, which is a physical/biological/technical question, and the mother's feelings, which is an emotional (and possibly religious) issue. Nobody is saying that viability is determined by the mother's feelings. |
Birth. |
I can see a law stating no abortions after x weeks. But the law should leave the determination of the gestation to a MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL. Not a legislature stating that I have been pregnant from the first day of my last menstrual cycle. For example, according to a bill in AZ I am pregnant RIGHT NOW. Better schedule that abortion early and often! |
When I saw my son on the ultrasound at 13 weeks he looked pretty human to me. At 8 weeks, not so much.
Pro choice. |
My thoughts and feelings have changed over the years after going through IVF and having children.
I think that a zygote is a human being. It may not be viable and it can't think/feel yet, but it's the earliest form of a human being. I do think of our frozen embryos as our babies. I would now never, ever consider an abortion for myself (not true when I was younger). That said, I'm pro-choice. As a PP mentioned, abortion is a necessary evil. Haven't decided the point at which I think there should be a cut off, if any - when the fetus can think/feel? just prior to viability? not sure. I think our biggest downfall as a society is not providing better birth control/education. Or the incentives for sterilization - nice! Or even support for adoption. I'm agnostic, if it matters. |
Ah, not really. Mothers can abandon the child to the state under safe haven laws. |