Best friend's wedding (and a toddler) WWYD?

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11/14/2011 12:54

Subject: Best friend's wedding (and a toddler) WWYD?

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Anonymous

Sounds like you already attended the real wedding, and this one is just for show. Forget it.

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11/14/2011 12:59

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Anonymous wrote:I would go alone and celebrate the 2nd bday on the weekend before or after. For me, weddings of close friends/relatives rank higher than birthdays. Even for DCs.

Yeah, this, I doubt your toddler is so advanced that he even knows when his birthday is. Go and have fun.

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11/14/2011 13:03

Subject: Best friend's wedding (and a toddler) WWYD?

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Anonymous wrote:I'm the opposite of 06:50, I wouldn't go. DC's birthday ranks higher than anything else, even if he is only 2 and doesn't really get it. Weddings...eh. Particularly overseas weddings. Your friend won't be any less married if you aren't there, so just send a lovely card telling her how much you love her and are happy for her and all that (and a gift of course) and be done with it.

Anyone who expects you to travel overseas (even if she lives there) at a huge expense and burden to you and gets upset when you can't go isn't really your friend. It's just a wedding.

While this may be a valid opinion, it has nothing to do with this situation. OP apparently wants to go, and nothign says that the friend has gotten upset at all. Totally irrelevant.