The words "charmless wackadoo" come to mind. |
Op = "charmless wackadoo" |
Well OP, I think the reason those men are so clueless is because they're simply not required to learn to be self-conscious (note Mr. Wackadoo above) from an early age as we are. I notice men simply daring to take up twice as much space as women all the time. Seriously. Look at the body language of the men and women gathered in almost every situation. Men will be at least somewhat sprawled, and women will sit much more compactly.
And although, like Mr. Wackadoo, men are keenly aware of the attractiveness or unattractiveness of the women around them, they're not inclined to assess themselves critically at all. Probably never occurs to those guys that they have an odor issue. As far as they're concerned, they're perfect just as they are, but this lady here, she's overweight. That one, she's getting old. The one over there, now she's worthy of my notice, handsome devil that I (naturally) am! Is this her lucky day or what? |
Well I feel Very offended by that comment ![]() |
But Remember Zumba does not cut it you must have other forms of activities i hear that from many women who only do zumba tell them to try power flex for easy yoga |
OP, I am with you and hate poor gym etiquette as well... Such as.... The guy with TERRIBLE BO who comes to yoga class and stinks up the entire room, the lady who takes up the entire bench with all of her shit and blabs on her cell phone as if she is the only person in the locker room, the people who leave their wet towels, hair, and empty shower product bottles in the shower. The people who come late to yoga and or Pilates and everyone has to shift their mats to fit them in 10 mins into the class, and don't even get me started on all the kids running all over the Tyson's corner sport and health locker room all summer. RANT OVER |
Men are okay. I'm more bothered by the horse that occasionally shows up to my zumba class. I mean, that's weird, right? |
Funny, thats how I feel men think of me on the golf course. |
To the op.. If that dude was some hunk.. Think Brad Pitt..that would put his sweaty balls on your mouth..I bet you Wouldn't be complaining..would ya..fake bitch!! |
Real men Zumba...men are too scared have insecurities and half of them might be closet gays..
Gay men lift weights and play basketball too..and huh grill, watch football and talk loud. Fucking stereotypes. |
For the sake of conversation, there is an unwritten rule in ballet class that, after barre, when centering in the middle of the room, the men are always supposed to be in the back row - they are the tallest, need the most room for spins, and that is their usual position when partnering. Then the women position themselves in front of the men according to their own self-perceived skill level (which gets downright funny sometimes). Everyone has a preselected slot. This system allows the maximum use of the glass - everyone can see themselves to correct. Then when some man who doesn't know better clambors into class he puts himself in the front row (shock! gasp!) and starts flaying around and hurts us. Someone has to tune him in that he's supposed to be in the back row. Maybe you can share this with your instructor. |
He sounds like Obama. Michelle complained in Cosmo that he smells horrible and the kids will not come in the bedroom till he's gone. He also is very uncoordinated .. Bowled a 36 in the campaign and threw out the first pitch like a spaz... Got stitches playing what he considers "basketball" ... A bad dancer. He also wears mom jeans and walks in an unmasculine way. I don't Blame you for being grossed out... From the looks on Michelle's face... She is too. |
Why can't there be specifically co-ed zumba classes?
I am a straight guy, but I understand the OP's point. I mean guys for the most part dominate the rest of the gym, especially the free weights, shy cant the girls have something for just themselves. Guys smell different than girls so I can see how that can be a turn off especially if you find the person unattractive. I used to be part of a zumba class and most of the girls seemed ok, they had a lot of fun poking fun at me every time there was a girly move, like shimmy your hips. However, I could tell there was one gal who didn't like having a guy there. I remember she came into class announcing "hey there's a dude here!" I took the class because I wanted to develop a sense of rhythm, become lighter on my feet, and i enjoy the dancing. There are not a lot of places a guy can go to learn to dance type moving without looking gay. If anybody knows of any coed zumba classes, post up. |
+1 |
Wow I don't go to gyms because of the territorial behaviors people have in public places. OP you are wrong because you claim (take up) too much space and because you assign (in your head) your class as single sex only for your own benefit. You need to accept that the guys have a right to be there and you have the choice to leave and go elsewhere if you don't want to do a class with men. If you posted on here about the fat chick you stepped on you would be roasted. If don't own that space then don't claim that space. |