| Not sure why your title says he is obsessed with respect? No one is going to respect him if he is the jerk you describe. I seriously think you have enabled him to a great degree because of your mis-characterization of this. |
Not op, it’s a personality disorder. He interprets supplication to be respect, when it’s obviously not. These can be miserable households. |
| Men like this are stunted. If you don’t have kids, leave. |
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You married wrong. |