Anonymous wrote:OP here.
DD it’s not my only child and I am not naïve to the fact that drinking goes on in college. I personally went to a very party heavy college and drank a lot. I have another child who almost certainly will choose to drink in college.
My question was, if I have a child that is going to Bucknell and does not want to drink, is that the wrong choice for her? Or are there a lot of other things to do besides drinking? She would be a college athlete, but I know that sometimes college athletes are the biggest partiers! She wants to get involved in Christian organizations, loves to hang out and be social, but is not a partier.
This is exactly how my son is, not at Bucknell though. I think he would be bothered if it was everywhere all the time and in your face. He found it annoying to be around drunk people, I know others that don’t drink don’t mind it. Good luck op, your eyes are wide open and you’re right that athletes can be big partiers too.
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